Hi everyone, I need your opinion on something. Is a 37 years old man single and with no kids a red flag? Would love to hear your thoughts on this?

[Adixia]

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. I say that because there are a lot of single men who aren’t the most handsome dudes alive or don’t meet women’s qualifications for how much she expects him to make, so women don’t even look in their direction. Supposedly a lot of women are chasing the same men, the top 10%. All those other men will never get a chance even though a lot of them could potentially be good husbands, good fathers. I don’t think it’s as big of an issue compare to a female. A lot of men don’t make descent money till they’re in their 30s, so he may not have wanted to get married or have kids till he’s sure he can provide for them. On the other hand a female, same age, not married w no kids, to me that’s a bigger red flag. I say this because most men don’t care about women’s finances, most times she just has to be gorgeous w a good personality to meet someone. Even if she isn’t the top notch looking female men will still be interested. Her most valuable time look wise is when she’s in her 20s. Now that she’s in her 30s it tends to get harder for women to meet someone.

[Finchie40]

Not necessarily, considering not everyone wants kids’ or has kids’ some people choose not to have them and not take the responsibility of having them. So it isn’t necessarily a flag , unless you want to have kids’ , then you are best not to pursue him anymore if that’s the case

[jazzy34]

Why would it be? There's no designated age to be married and/or have children. Also remember that not everyone wants marriage and/or children. So no, definitely not a red flag.

[EmmaMary]

@Adixia

Personally I would tread with some caution... Certainly a Red Flag.

@slatyb Has summed this up extremely well.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

I'm all about shedding light on those relationship mysteries! A 37-year-old man who's single and without kids isn't necessarily a red flag; it's more like a unique shade of individuality. 🚩He's got experience and probably knows what he's looking for. Maybe he's spent time loving life, or spent time healing from lovebombing. It's all about the journey, baby! Approach without assumptions, but keep communication open. There's a delicious story behind every quiet river! 😄

[slatyb]

Maybe. Maybe not. It's true that many people are married by 37, and some have children. But for various reasons some people are late bloomers, particularly people raised in dysfunctional homes. So I would be curious about his background and life history, but I wouldn't necessarily dismiss him until I knew more.

[abc3643]

I was one of those.
Look, you have a choice:
37-year old, single, no kids
or
baggage

Which would you prefer?

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but not just a red flag. A gargantuan red flag. What is his problem?

[WindAtMyBack]

No, that's not a red flag. It's not even a yellow flag. It means nothing at all.

[genericname85]

apparently being alive and breathing is a red flag these days xD

[shortster]

I hope not.