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When we first got together there was a tie over between her and me (I never knew about this until after)

We were on a night out and we walked past her and he couldn’t stop laughing in her face almost and I said why? He said running joke.

Then the night after she messaged his friend in a rage saying how dare he did he have fun. My ex replied yeah I did. (Never knew this for months)

But him and his friends had a group chat with her name - it was in a joking way and didn’t talk about her just general conversation.

They all joked she was the only “thick” for him. And spoke about her when it came up like saying aww she would never etc. it was never in a way that was like she’s so hot etc. she’s stunning.

She uploaded a picture of her boobs with a smiley face drawn on it and it was sent to a chat and they just all laughed never said so amazing etc. they also did this with anyone else too.

But when we split he attempted to go back to everyone before me including her and his friends said she’s dumb enough to let you fuck her over again

We’re his friends and him obsessed or did I just see it that way?

He refused fo talk good about me with them. Made it out like I had nothing good etc cos he was so jealous of me. He hated I could get someone else instantly and he struggled massively. This girl was a one off then so was I. Before her he hasn’t managed to get sex for 6 months and desperately had to get her. He knew fine well I lowered what I’d go for to give him a chance.

She was overweight and very plain faced. But him and a few of his friends were obsessed making a joke out of her, had a group chat named after her, saying how good she was etc.

I know I was a step up from her but I get they are all into big girls but why were they obsessed with her? They were the only people talking about hee etc it wasn’t like everyone fancied her etc it was far from that. So why?

I met him 3 or 4 years ago in school and he's always been like this to me. We are high schoolers now. I asked him why and its because I act like Im better than him in everything but thats not even true. I told him that too and he realized I was right. Even when Im nice he always does some dumb bullshit to try and make me mad and always adds a snarky commet to piss me off. He doesn't even realize that he doing it. Its come to the point where its awkward to be nice to each other. I actually had a crush on him for a while. I doubt he likes me though. he's been obsessed with this girl ever since I've met him but from what I heard he doesn't like her anymore. I just can't wrap my head around why he can't be civil with me like he is to other people. Does he hate me that much?