Search Results: self esteem

What does he want?

A while ago I matched with this guy on tinder, and we got along really well. Anyway, safe to say I was catching feelings, when he then starts talking to me about another girl he was seeing. This hurt a little bit, because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Is employment gap seen as bad thing in USA?

How true is that? Do you think a college graduate that graduated 6 years ago and got only 6 mos job and that her only experience and that she started looking for a job now is that bad thing in her resume? So I graduated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

In the current life situation , what should I do?

I am 28 year old guy , who is intelligent but cannot express my thoughts into words , thin and tall guy but not a handsome / good looking person. Introvert with very less friends I am an MBA finance graduate, working...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Do you feel like you don’t exist without your job?

Now I love my job. I put in overtime and work 80-90 hours and I love interacting with people. It gives me a sense of growth and it boost my self esteem. Yeah, at times it has been physical taxing on my body. But I was not...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Am I the problem? Do you think my past experience caused me to have problems in life?

Ever since I was a kid I was abused by my adoptive parents (my aunt) she was physically abusive, and emotionally abusive hits me when I do mistakes, always humiliates me in public by saying Im not a good kid" even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Experiences on dating men with a very low self-esteem?

Hi all, I'm a straight woman in 30s and 2 weeks ago I started dating an ex collegue of mine, we used to work for the same company 7 years ago but we never actually met each other. We matched on Bumble and that's how it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, I told a guy he is cute and he told me to not say that because it will affect his sense of self-esteem, what does he mean by that?

I was joking around with a male friend of mine. I called him Pink Panther and he said that name doesn't fit to him because he is not cute (He likes to put himself down as jokes a lot or just self-insulting himself). I...

mrpk02

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guys keep friendzoning me. I'm going insane. Should I enable them or remove them from my life?

It's really wrecking my self-esteem that I'm one of the few girls that actually gets friendzoned, when it's usually men that get friendzoned. I keep thinking I'm making 'progress' when I hang out with the guys I'm...

Bethany22

Influencer Age: 31

When a guy says he’s not looking for anything at the moment, what does it mean?

I hooked up with a guy and caught feelings. I decided to be the one to talk about it and asked him what’s been going on in his mind. He said he’s not looking for anything at the moment and we shouldn’t hook up again...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it really possible to get a girlfriend if you believe your hideous?

Like I already had low self esteem and my ex girlfriend did even more damage to that

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

How do you repair broken self-esteem?

In this specific scenario, therapy or counselling is not an option. In what ways do you help yourself when your self esteem is suffering? What are some good self care methods to improve how you view yourself?

petitedollbabee

Master Age: 24

Relationships

Boyfriend started shutting his internet at night and acting distant but does not want to break up why?

So my boyfriend had a recent loss in the family. I'm trying my best in terms of being compassionate and supporting him however, I noticed that he started disconnecting from the internet once he comes home from work. He...

peaceisindeath666

Xper 1 Age: 28

Health & Fitness

Does depression causes low self esteem?

Anonymous

(25-29)

He chose another girl over me but came back?

So I was talking to this guy, and we got along really well. We both knew each other were talking to other people which was fine, but then he started asking me for advice on one of the other girls he was talking to. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Is there a moment that you've had, in which you thought to yourself, maybe I'm smarter or more attractive or more talented, etc, than I thought I was?

Like a specific moment that you remember, or something that happened that made you kinda feel yourself, or raise your self esteem

Anonymous

(25-29)

Like a specific moment that you remember, or something that happened that made you kinda feel yourself, or raise your self esteem

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Question to the men: Is a girl having low self-esteem or a lack of confidence in her abilities a deal breaker? Would you still date a girl like that?

Or would you try to build her up and be that support pillar?

HawkPerception

Master Age: 32

Or would you try to build her up and be that support pillar?

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Would you cut contact with millionaire narcissistic parents?

Let's say your parents are sadistic narcissists. Growing up, they'd physically and emotionally abuse you. They constantly put you down, encourage you to commit self harm, discourage and torment your own children, and do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Let's say your parents are sadistic narcissists. Growing up, they'd physically and emotionally abuse you. They constantly put you down, encourage you to commit self harm, discourage

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Perfectionism or low self esteem. Which one has worser effect when a person try to find boyfriend/girlfriend?

Most perfectionists have no girl friend

Anonymous

(30-35)