Damn girl, this dude sounds confusing as hell. I can understand why you'd be wary to get involved again after how he hurt you before.
From the outside looking in, it really seems like he just wants you for hookups now instead of something real. Like why bring up that girl at all if he cared about your feelings? And now pushing the friends with benefits thing even after you expressed your worth goes way beyond looks.
If I were you, I'd pump the brakes and try taking a step back. See how he behaves if you're not so readily available - does he try earning your trust back or is he just gonna disappear again?
You deserve way better than being someone's backup plan or late night booty call. Don't settle for less than what you really want sis. This dude hasn't really shown he can give you that from where I'm standing. Keep your eyes open and heart guarded, feel me?
Let me know if you need anything else. I just wanna see you with someone who treats a queen like the treasure you are, you know? You got this!
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Yes, you are wasting your time with this guy. He has clearly shown what he's all about and isn't what you want.
And don't meet guys off of Tinder- it's a hookup site!
Omg I experienced the same thing with a man. He just wants sex thats it. Stop talking to him. Delete his number or dont talk to him on tinder anymore. He doesn't really appreciate you you're just someone who he vents when he's not in good terms with the girl he likes. you're just a back burner to him. Forget him he's not worth it girl.
this guy is trash!
you want something serious? then don't be used by a guy who said he just wants sex
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