Search Results: why not be together

Why do men tend to experience a greater emotional breakdown than women when they are dumped?

I met a guy recently who said he had a girlfriend. He told me they did everything together, he introduced her to his family and so on. Then she dumped him. He said he was devastated, couldn’t tell anyone, wanted to kidnap...

capriVib

Explorer Age: 23

Friends with benefits?

I briefly dated a guy (about a month). He let me know he didn't feel the spark he was looking for. He said he loved spending time together and would love to be friends. I can see how we are not a good fit based on a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I briefly dated a guy (about a month). He let me know he didn't feel the spark he was looking for. He said he loved spending time together and would love to be friends. I can see how

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Boyfriend of 2 years has been way less affectionate and doesn't kiss me anymore - what could be the reason?

My boyfriend has started being really cold towards me and I don't know why. For like the last week, he has not kissed me one time and usually we kiss before going to work/anytime on of us goes somewhere and even randomly....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why we risk trust even after it’s been shattered

1. Because love doesn’t shut off like a switch Even after the betrayal, your heart remembers the laughter, the late-night talks, the way they once made you feel safe. Love holds on, even when it hurts. 2. Because hope is...

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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Break Up & Divorce

Time to expose myself. Be honest. What are your thoughts on this (abusive) situation?

I need perspective, I haven’t been to therapy, and my friend circle is small. In 2016, I met a man that I really liked. He was 26 and I was 23, and it wasn’t long until we started dating. I met his parents very early on,...

Pink934

Xper 6 Age: 34

What is or was your toxic trait (s) in a relationship?

For me it's codependency and I think it comes from not having my father around growing up. I didn't realize how much that neglect would stick with me in my adult years and into my first relationship, but it did. It's...

Simslover92

Influencer Age: 34

I have feelings for an evil man help me?

About 5 months ago I was going out with this guy for a month and a bit. He wanted to see me everyday. We did fun dates together and he made it seem like he wanted to date me and get into a relationship. He was going on a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it normal to not desire see a guy im dating & feel no butterflies?

It’s a guy I been seeing for 3wks or a month I don’t remember. We meet weekly 2-3xa wk. I stay to sales at his house , we cuddle hug while we sleep, wake up together and eat breakfast together. Date. We eat sitting close...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Why are people making comments about me being taller than my new boyfriend?

So I accepted that most men I would be dating would be shorter than me or whatever. I am 6’4 barefoot. I’m more open minded to dating men in different heights. I’m tired of doing this and I was always hung up on finding a...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Family & Friends

Why does my stepfather treat my mother and me badly?

My mother got married two months ago. This is the period when my mother and stepfather lived together. My stepfather cursed me and my mother in unspeakable ways, behaving inappropriately. He completely exploited us. After...

KaanHero21

Xper 1 Age: 21

I tried to flirt with my male colleague?

I work with this guy. Initially we didn’t spend a lot of time together because our desks weren’t close together but recently we’re having our workplace renovated so we’ve been forcefully sitting near each other a lot....

Anonymous

(25-29)

I tried awkwardly flirting with my colleague?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this normal?

Been talking to a guy for 2 months now, known him for 3 years, everything is going good. My question to guys or female who have been in my position is, is it normal for (John doe) to have a female friend who reaches out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why would this girl lie about not “talking to” the guy I used to talk to… just to find out they’re getting divorced?

I recently found out that a Nigerian guy I used to talk to was actually married the whole time. I saw online that he’s now filing for divorce, and it turns out it’s from the same woman I had previously come across—she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he still interested in me romantically?

I’ve been dating a man for a month and a half. We get together a few times a week and we talk every day via text and FaceTime almost all day long. He’s even started falling asleep on the phone. He did state when we first...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

This girl flirts with me but has a boyfriend?

This girl does the following: Laughs at all my jokes Twirls her hair Smiles at me with bigger energy than she does everyone else Stands very close to me when talking, basically touching arms or hips together...

TemplarKnight

Xper 5 Age: 36

Education & Career

Why does my coworker only interact with others accept me?

I work in a classroom with two other staff. All together four staff (one teacher and three teacher assistants). I used to interact with one of the coworkers (let’s call her Casey) for two weeks when I first started the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will things change if I change first?

hi guys, my boyfriend and i used to do a lot of things together and used to go out on a lot of dates now we barely do anything. why? because all i do is complain. i’ll be very honest i’ve recently became very insecure...

Anonymous

(30-35)