I have feelings for an evil man help me?

[Anonymous]

About 5 months ago I was going out with this guy for a month and a bit. He wanted to see me everyday. We did fun dates together and he made it seem like he wanted to date me and get into a relationship. He was going on a trip to Europe for a month and before he left we had sex. He said that he would send me pictures and call me but he did none of that and basically ended up ghosting me. Time went by and a couple days ago he reached out by sending me my tik tok and saying I can be a Texan. We were talking and I wrote something and he’s like that’s all you remember of me:( and I was like what do u remember of me because i remember u ghosting me lol. And he goes i remember you being the first girl i had feelings for after my ex. I wrote no you didn’t 😂 I know of at least 2 girls that you had sex with after me. And he was like who and yes I did. I named the girls and said that if he liked me then he shouldn’t have ignored me. He said that he wasn’t intentionally ignoring me and that he was just busy. And I wrote “acting like you have 3 kids and a wife you need to provide for. Anyways it’s fine lol u do u “ and he still hasn’t answered so he basically ghosting me again. I’m super annoyed because I don’t understand why he even reached out to just not answer it makes me sad. Because I wish he really liked me and wanted to speak to me. Meanwhile while he is texting me he is in Greece. So he wouldn’t even be able to see me if he wanted because he is on vacation. What do u guys think this means? And how do I get over this evil man? Because I think I like toxic men and I’m attracted to him physically but he’s a slut and I don’t know if I can look passed the things he’s done to me but somehow I still want him.

[FreyaRed]

That inevitable drama attracts you. I don't know you and I don't want make any assumption about you but all my friends who like bad boys have tendency for self victimization and drama.

[Asker]

I mean I don’t victimize myself i deal with the consequences of dealing with a bad boy. But I am attracted to toxic men I don't know why I just find them hot even before I know they are toxic

[Anonymous]

Are u guys officially dating? Confessed intentions and stuff

[Asker]

We were not dating but going out getting to know each other and he made it seem like he wanted to date me

[Opinion Owner]

Looks like u both haven’t even established what u are looking for from each other. How can u call him evil

[Asker]

Well listen if you were going out on dates with a guy it’s been a month. You both admit to liking each other. And he acts like he wants to date you. Then goes ghost on vacation and does the same thing now while he is on vacation. Maybe he isn’t evil
But he’s an asshole. I didn’t do anything to deserve that behaviour and if he was a decadent man he would have just told me hey I’m not feeling it anymore if that was the case no?

[Opinion Owner]

Did u both ever tell that u were dating? did u?

[Wise4myage]

Have you tried blocking and ignoring him?

[Asker]

I feel like I lost my chance since he ghosted me for a second time. And it’s hard because I don’t really wanna ignore him

[Plugs]

What are your intentions? With him

[Wise4myage]

Then focus on moving on.

[MasterKS]

Aura of bad boy, you are trapped well in that.

[Asker]

I know smh

[MasterKS]

@asker one of my friend went through almost same situation few years back.