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Just a disclaimer... you don't HAVE to clarify what's wrong with it, you can just vote "no" on the poll regardless, though I would prefer if you clarified. Thank you.

But anyways, okay, so I was just browsing men's fashion online, and for some reason the outfit in the attached picture just spoke to me on a spiritual level. I just found it SOOOOO cute for some reason. Usually most men's outfits either look too basic or like they're trying too hard in my opinion, but I like how the above picture is a pretty simple outfit yet looks very put together and unique at the same time.

Like it's basically just a dark gray shirt with light gray shorts, but the specific way it's styled just makes all the difference to me.

It also helps that the model himself is a total hottie who is in very good physical shape and has glowing tanned skin, but I feel this would be an excellent look for basically any man.

When I geeked out about this men's outfit to my friends, I more or less had mixed responses... about half absolutely loved it as much as me, and half felt completely indifferent to it and "had no idea what I saw as so special about this outfit."

And so I'm curious what you guys think about it. Is it a really good outfit like I'm thinking, or am I just being weird and/or delusional about this? Lol.

Even with no actual experience I still believe I fall under this category, I wonder if I need to manifest the law of attraction or something even though I do think that’s bs.

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. Dating apps are the only way I’ve tried dating as I dont have a social life but dating apps have been successful for quite a few people I know. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?

I'm always accidentally oblivious to another girl flirting with me.

Usually just think she is friendly or being cute for the guys watching us.

When they flirt with each other it seems so obvious!