Why did this nice guy insult me?

Anonymous
I recently started Tinder again and messaged this guy that used to be in my theater class in HS. I thought he was cute when I was 17-18 but I was always the “ugly” friend, and I also found out he had a crush on my then-friend. So I just knew not to ask out a popular, yet nerdy Star-Wars fan. He is also a year younger than me by the way.

I started losing weight and looking better, so much that my old classmates didn’t recognize me. I started dressing not embarrassingly and dyed my hair normal, wore it down a lot more, not being emo.

So yeah I matched with this guy, and he looked… okay. I was happy to reconnect with him because he was always so nice to me, and like I said, I liked him.

WELL after I matched, we swapped Snapchats and got to talking. I realized we didn’t have anything in common, and he asked to hangout.

This is how it went

Him: So when are we hanging out?

Me: Well I don’t know, I don’t think we vibe like that.

Him: I never knew you were such a bitch.

Me: ? Is that a joke

Him: I swear I thought that sent. I said, I never knew you were such a bitch

I sent some angry response and blocked him. But he was so nice to me when I was in high-school, what changed?
Why did this nice guy insult me?
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