Does he like me, is he just being nice, or is he a player?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys, thanks for the help. here's a list of things he does
-makes fun of other girls, actually insults them
Says to girls things like "you have man hands," "youre a bad singer," etc. (Doesnt mean it but says it a lot.) He can be brutal sometimes too, does it constantly.

-Annoys girls
Messes up their hair, sprays them with water, etc. Does this constantly to every girl in and out of class

-posts a lot of things players would
Posts of squads, girls, stuff like that

This is how he acts with me:
- is nice to me
He never insults me, actually compliments me (says im the best actress in class, im nicer, im an awesome singer, etc.)

-doesnt want to annoy me
For example, when he was spraying some girls he almost sprayed me and my friend and he said "oh wow im so sorry chelsea!" And meant it. He will tease me, like when i needed to get my shoes he kicked them around and said "whoops im sorry i dont know whats happening i can't control it"

- he touches me
He always will tap my head, my back or arms when passing me in the halls. When we sat in class our feet kept touching and he just kept it there.

-eyes and paying attention
I've caught him subtly looking me up and down, when i talk his eyes are glued on me. He even was talking to his friend then once i started talking to a group of people he completely turned to me and ignored his friend.

-He treats me so much better than all of the other girls, when i asked him why he said "its because you're actually nice to me." Thingis, I actually am a bit meaner than all the other girls. Ill "roast" him, and he won't even insult me back. All he says is "well ill just make you sound bad on talent show day" because he does the sound for it, he doesn't mean it though. If any other girl insults him, he willinsult her back

Yesterday:
I roasted him and he said "well okay Im mad at you now." Later on he went from sitting beside one girl to shuffling over to me and said "im sitting beside chelsea" then sto

he is a player/ f***boy

he is a teenage boy who likes you

oooh someone likes you 😉

he is a player but has respect for you

he just has respect for you/ is being nice

otherrrr

Updates

+1 y

Stood up and said "wait no nvm I am mad at you"
Then I said hi to him in the halls and he said "hi Chelsea😊 wait no I'm supposed to be mad at you." Playfully and turned away
He hasn't answered my text that says "nick I'm sorryyyyy"
Does he like me? Does he not? Is he a player? Is he not?
Also, how do I get him to answer? I'm probably gonna give him an apology hug Tuesday because why not first hug with him. Is that a good idea?

[Hannah591]

He's not a "player" lol! He's just flirting with everyone or likes a bit of fun. It doesn't mean he's hooking up with them all and messing them around.

I hung around with an actual player, very attractive and got every girl and me and him got along like a house on fire, but it was always platonic. You just connect differently to people.

[Asker]

Well he posts stuff about sex and stuff and girls and squads and a handful of my guy friends think he is a f***boy. Then again, they dont know him, they've only seen him in the halls. My friends who went to his old school love him though, and those are some of my female friends.
They think that its quite obvious he likes me but I'm not sure

[Hannah591]

And if he does like you, what will you do with that information?

[Asker]

Well I'll need to see if he is a good person or not. If people just read him wrong, and he likes me, sure I'll go for him

[Asker]

Do you personally think he is a player/ f*** boy or do you believe he's just a teenager and they all do those things/ will grow out of it

[Hannah591]

He's just a teenager.

[Asker]

I hope so! Thanks for the help 💜

[Kartusha]

Girl, he likes you. But there's nothing to be happy about. He is kind of bully I think. I can call it bullying because his behaviour is disrespectful towards other girls. I suggest you get over with him or if you really like him, talk to him. Maybe he will think about it when he hears it from person who he likes.

[Asker]

I kind of used the wrong word, it isn't really an I sult more like a teasing joke, he says something like "wow manhands" but says it in a way so we all know he'skidding around. He does it constantly, and sometimes he crosses the line a bit. He's teases me in nicer ways, tapping my head , back, arms, kicking my shoes around, saying hell make me sound bad on talent show day. He never gives me an "insult" though, only compliments.
He even pressed his ear against the drama room door when I was singing and acting in the drama room for a musical call back because he was listening in the doorframe and got kicked out (he wasn't auditioning.) He left when I was finished performing. He didn't even know I knew he was there.

[jraje]

Yes, it seems like he likes you. Although a lot of guys act like how you described at my school. There's guys that I know for sure aren't players that act that way. Lol a lot of teens including me say "squad" these days.

[Asker]

Yea even the last guy I liked everyone called a f*** boy even though he hasn't dated anyone until three months ago, and he's still dating her. He actually has a lot of respect for himself. I'm just not sure if this one is one. He seems flirty but rude (like really rude) to other girls but all he's done to me is compliment me, joke, or say he is mad playfully. I kind of hope he likes me if he isn't a player, hopefully not. And yea, I say squad too but he has one of those squad pictures, a bunch of guys in hoods looking down and stuff.

[jraje]

Last year there was this guy that was rude to every girl at school except for me. It turned out that he liked me once the word got around. I told him that I didn't like him and he stopped talking to me. We were actually good friends lol but aside from all that.. Most guys I've noticed that post pics on instagrams in the hoods they claim have never actually even lived in the hood. They just do it to be cool. He does seem like he likes you though. Some people call guys players just because they're fine or cute.

[Asker]

Ooh wow that is so weird how your story exactly relates with mine! I kind of hope he likes me to be completely honest. I bet he posts that stuff to be cool, and I hope so too. A lot of girls think he's cute/ hot so that's most likely the cause of it. A few of my guy friends say he looks like a f*** boy, but they never really talk to him so its stereotypical. I try not to assume, but sometimes it gets the best of me.

[-dani-]

A fuckboy with a small crush. Never date a guy who is rude towards other people.

[LavatoryLoveMachine]

You've got to ask him to know for sure but I'd say he certainly has some interest in you if he treats you differently to all other girls. I can't really say what his intentions are though, more information would be needed for me.

[Asker]

Hanks for your opinion! What sort of info would you need?

[Asker]

Thanks* sorry I just like Tom Hanks a lot so it automatically goes to that 😂

[LavatoryLoveMachine]

His past relationships. If he is known to play girls or if he is generally a loyal boyfriend. Again, it won't provide a definitive answer but it will provide you with good information to go on.

[Asker]

That's good advice! I could ask his sister, she's in my class.
I know he must care for me a bit now. When I was singing and acting for callbacks for the school music room, he had his ear pressed against the door the whole time even though the teacher kicked him our of the class (because he wasn't auditioning.) He left once I finished. He didn't even know I noticed him listening in 😄

[ThisDudeHere]

Why would you want to know whether he likes you or not? He's not worth it and you should stay clear of the asshole otherwise you're just furthering the notion that women go for douchebags all the time.

[Asker]

I should have chose a different word, he doesn't necessarily insult, more like a tease/ make fun of them, he just does this constantly but he doesn't mean to hurt anyone and nobody is hurt by it because they understand its a joke. He's so much nicer to me than a few other guys are in my school. Trust me, I have avoided douchebags my whole life. Sure its not that long, 16 years, but I haven't dated one person yet due to wanting them to be a good person who I find at least a bit attractive. This one treats me nicer than others. I noticed even today that he had his ear pressed against the drama room door when I was singing and acting for musical call backs even hough he got kicked out (for not being in the musical.) He listened to my whole performance and then left without hearing anyone else's. I'm sorry, it was the word I used

[ThisDudeHere]

Oh... well ok in that case he might be interested, yes.

[Asker]

I still want to make sure he is a good person before I jump into anything, but I think he is good so far

[ThisDudeHere]

Well then do as your heart pleases.

[madhatters4]

he sounds like a jerk. based on everything you posted I don't think it matters if he likes you, is a player or is just being nice. he sounds disrespectful to people and especially women

[Asker]

He doesn't want people to take it to heart, he is kidding and everybody knows it. Its not like he is saying it seriously and wants to hurt peoples feelings, its just how he kids. But he is more respectful to me. Even when I was doing call backs for a musical, he was watching me about to sing but the teacher kicked him out and closed the door. He pretended to leave and then came back and pressed his ear to the door while I was singing and acting and left once I finished (it was one person at a time performing.) I actually felt so happy, its like he cared enough to listen to me. And remember, he didn't know I knew he was watching

[Anonymous]

I would put him in the fuckboy category, but I couldn't know for sure.
He's obviously not actually mad at you so don't hug him or apologise.
If he doesn't make an actual move or say he likes you then talk to him so you're on the same page.

[Asker]

I was just gonna hug him jokingly, gives me an excuse to anyways 😄.
If he is an f boy, he seems to be a caring one! He was at the door listening to me sing and act for school musical callbacks and when he was kicked out (he's not auditioning) he pressed his ear against the door the whole time I performed and left when I finished.
His sister is nice to me and we get along well, she's actually so real and cool, just bubbly and likes to tease and joke. He probably is just like his sister, hopefully.

[Battooot]

well, basically; he either respects you or finds you attractive/likes you.

[Asker]

I think he likes me! When I was getting ready to sing and act for call backs for my school musical, I noticed he was at the door watching. A teacher kicked him out and closed the door. A second or two later I see him with hisear pressed against the door as I sung and acted, and once I finished he left. He didn't even know I saw him listening💜

[Battooot]

well then there you go :)

[Pinkbeauty]

he respects you but he probably flirts with other people

[Asker]

Well the thing is, he is actually almost rude to any other girl. With me its a more playful flirty thing. He actually insults every girl when teasing them, except for me. He's so much more apologetic and sweet with me. He also uses his insults as a compliment to me. Ie. He made funof his girls red and black plaid shirt. When I mentioned mines the same he said "no no yours is actually nice and pretty it has blue in it." Then he said a girl was a bad singer and randomly ssaid "Chelsea is a beautiful singer like she is so talented." And he's done that a fee times

[Pinkbeauty]

oh i see

[Asker]

So what is your verdict? 😄

[Pinkbeauty]

I don't know maybe he's nice to u but probably not with other girls

[Asker]

I hope not! I'll see soon

[Pinkbeauty]

oh ok

[VampireEmpress]

he sounds really confident, and he lets you insult him... so I'd say player.

[shay47]

The guy I have a crush on is nice to every girl, :) ( including me)

[Asker]

Aww cool ☺

[Anonymous]

To be honest it looks like he's in love with you... Trust me

[Asker]

Could you explain?

[Opinion Owner]

No I really don't feel like explaining but just take what I said into consideration...

[Asker]

Well okay, if you ever would have the time to explain, I'll be right here haha 😄 thank you for the help!

[Deft_maiden]

He sounds like a normal teenage boy

[Asker]

Normal teenage boy with or without attraction?

[Anonymous]

He sounds very immature.

[Asker]

He is 15, its kind of what they do best 😂

[kiler1000]

You should stay away

[Asker]

When he insults the girls we all know he is joking its not like he means that stuff, he just has a habit of doing it often

[kiler1000]

just be sure that's all it is.

[Asker]

I always get a feeling when a guy is a player or not goodnews. This is why iI'm confused, I am not getting that instinct here.

[kiler1000]

trust your gut and the advice others, as well as his rep.

[Asker]

I will thank you! 😃

[kiler1000]

no problem. good luck.

[Anonymous]

kids are retarded.

[Asker]

Yep, look at me for example! 😂