Lgbtq plus... Is it easier for you to notice when the same sex flirts with you?

[RoseySarah]

I'm always accidentally oblivious to another girl flirting with me.

Usually just think she is friendly or being cute for the guys watching us.

When they flirt with each other it seems so obvious!

Straight!

Usually easier

Still hard to notice

Depends on their gender

Depends on who is flirting and if your even open to it

Wish they would stop flirting with me

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No, I always assume they are just being friendly.

Once, I got close friends with one girl who traveled from a faraway city to spend 3 days with me and stayed with me.

She slept in the same bed as me and on a 3rd day she told me she thinks she likes girls and asked me if I like girls…

I don’t like girls…

[RoseySarah]

Nopes sorry
Same
My highschool BFF latter was lesbian and we did everything together and slept in the same bed so many times.

Never knew till latter 🤣 or she just decided latter before she turned trans. Then untrans

[Anonymous]

My ex girlfriend was pretty wild and her family was weird. I was banging her one morning on the kitchen table when her two younger sisters came down with their mother and caught us. I was all embarrassed but her mother was OK about it and told her that If I was close I could finish and they'd all me make me breakfast. So I just continued thrusting and they just talked to each other while I plowed my ex girlfriend from behind on the kitchen table, her sisters were looking me direct in the eye and flashed me their boobs and I just couldn't hold back. Her mother was all happy and commented that my girlfriend was lucky as I had a decent sized dick. They were so weird like that, my ex apologised about it. That happened a few times as she shared a room.

[RoseySarah]

This has nothing to do with the question?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I don't anticipate being flirted with, unless my wife is feeling frisky. When I was single (20+ years ago), I figured, anyone of the same sex flirting with me, was only interested in one thing.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I voted for number five, "depends on who"

[RoseySarah]

Well I'm sure them wanting one thing has not changed!
Same don't expect flirting but from my love!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

It makes it easier when you're only looking for that one person to flirt with you :-)

[mandyfire98]

It's super noticeable. The thing that I've noticed with lesbian or bisexual women is they don't really go that subtle. It's not like the opportunities are as common as straight relationships or hookups. So there's no wasting of time. Anytime a woman has hit on me it's pretty blatant. They normally will ask for my number as well whenever they do flirt. Or the other way around. If I'm flirting with a woman then I'm gonna probably ask for her number.

[RoseySarah]

Strange how the tis but I think they have more opportunities? Specially being bi?
My coworker always flirts and dates everyone but those that say yes well are the bad dates.
Poor thing

[mandyfire98]

Bisexuals have more opportunities with both genders but not necessarily more opportunities with our own gender.

Bisexual and lesbians are still in the minority so same sex relationships aren't as prevalent as straight relationships. Which means I'm hit on way less by women as opposed to men hitting on me. So when women do flirt or hit on me it's super noticeable

[petitedollbabee]

When women have flirted with me I’ve been oblivious.. it’s hard to know the difference between niceness or flirting. Whereas with guys, it’s so obvious when they’re flirting.

[RoseySarah]

Honestly the same but when I notice it's seems more obvious.
Unless they are just being losers

[Anonymous]

I'm not too bad when it comes to realizing when a guy is hitting on me or flirting with me. And sometimes I like to keep that banter going for a brief moment.

But if a woman if hitting on me or trying to flirt, oh my god, I am seriously terrible and picking up those signals! My wife thinks it's cute that I have zero clue when a woman finds me appealing; I always just think the person is being really nice!

Although that does explain a lot- I'm a bisexual guy, and even though I've always had a stronger connection to females (most of my good friends are women), I've been able to easily make friends with men as well. Plus, even though I frequently hooked up with both women and men, I was only ever serious about dating women. Meaning, I take my relationships and interactions with women a little more seriously than those with the men I encounter.

[Tessafowler03]

Im strait. And I have had lesbians propositioning me all the time

[RoseySarah]

It happens 😂 but is it easy to notice?

[BadApple69]

I had a guy flirt with me one time…. Didn’t even notice till he came right out with “hey, do you want a blow job or not”…. He was talking sex stuff before that but I thought it was just in general… I didn’t realize he was coming on to me.

[Minahh]

I'm on ace spectrum but it's easier to notice! Like they were so straitforward about what they want and were not resentful after I told them no. It seems only men need to play games.

[RoseySarah]

Often times it does seem that way. Like we know you just want sex. Beforward and don't be mad of course we say No!

They do take it easier wonder why?

[Joshydavid25]

Much easier.. Guys are usually very straightforward.. They'll straight out tell me what they want.. Even if they are more subtle it's still pretty easy to tell..

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't recognize flirting very often, to be honest. I'm almost blind to it.

[Anonymous]

I can tell if a gay guy tries, it’s happened when I was a lot younger, now no sex flirts with me and hasn’t in 20 years

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I know the feeling!

[RoseySarah]

@MiddleAgedClimbee as we get older there is less and less flirting or compliments.

[Opinion Owner]

@MiddleAgedClimbee Yeah it’s disappointing that it never happens at all

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Sorry to hear it! I'm just thankful when at least my spouse flirts these days.

[Opinion Owner]

@MiddleAgedClimbee at least you have a spouse, I’ve been divorced for years

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I'll count my blessings :-).

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Sometimes it's easier to tell.

[Nikki1989]

I notice women more because I have learned to ignore men.

[Anonymous]

Yes!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Jqyzk8H3Hfshttps://www.youtube.com/embed/xRZHsZvzFlMhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/QDoeUnWpccAhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/TBEpSp_9xUY

[NathanDavis]

I'm straight... but some men have hit on me yes, and they're very straight forward about it too, there's no mistake, lol

[sage2021]

@NathanDavis
My ex-husband is a good looking guy and a fantastic electric guitar player. But each time he would audition to get a job in a great band (San Francisco) the guys would hit on him. So his dream to be a guitar player in a famous band died. He is straight!
But for the rest of his life, if some gay guy hit on him, he would beat the shit out of him. I guess it happened too many times and he struck back. Plus gay guys ruined his chances of having his dream life come true. 💔

[sage2021]

No woman better flirt with me or I'll knock her on her ass!

[KrakenAttackin]

@sage2021 Come on now, all women are bi.

[RoseySarah]

@KrakenAttackin not all of us!
Your also assuming all men are gay

[KrakenAttackin]

@Baseig Truth.

[RoseySarah]

@Baseig yeah he loves telling lies and insults that no one listens to

[KrakenAttackin]

@Baseig No, it's just reality.

[RoseySarah]

@KrakenAttackin in your pathetic anime and hentia

[SeaStorm1]

I'm straight and got hit on with one woman from online dating.

[Titanic1912]

I’m 100% straight. If a guy starts flirting with me, I’m going to tell him to stop flirting with me and tell him that I’m straight and only interested in women.

[LunarEclipse433]

I can see where it would probably be difficult to discern between fun and flirting. Have you ever had a complete stranger (female) seduce you? That would be so hot

[RoseySarah]

Yeah porn is the other site your on! Forgot which tab your in huh boy.

Seduction is not like the movies or she kissed my neck now clothes explode like in anime.

🤣 Lmao

[LunarEclipse433]

I know where I am at silly girl. I enjoy watching the two females flirt with each other testing the waters

[Pohjolan]

Straight but I wouldn't have any issues getting laid in a gay bar. It kind of puts in perspective how much more picky women are.

[RoseySarah]

Yeah we like relationships our clots don't contol us as much

[sage2021]

@Pohjolan
Oh, I get it, you're a girly boy. 😅🤣😂🤮

[RoseySarah]

@sage2021 probably hides his panties

[Pohjolan]

@sage2021
No. Google Tom of Finland. There's plenty of gays whom are not going for twinks.

[Pohjolan]

@roseysarah
That too but women are not chasing fuckboys in hopes of getting into a relationship.

[RoseySarah]

Yeah they are believing they can change them

[Drumlin2001]

Nobody ever flirts with me, regardless of gender or orientation

[Kimchi_doll]

It's easier to tell yes

[Hulk30]

because im straight and it's true