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Lost hair to a telogen alopecia at 18. Shave what’s left. Still have eyebrows and most body hair. I’m a decent looking guy, even told I’m handsome by many. But I’m 28 now and I’ve just had no luck dating. Never even been kissed or on a date. I’m very social, involved in many groups and activities, went through 4 years of college and always had big social circles. So so many times women have shared how they can’t believe I’m single etc but yet, sometimes even those same women, turn me down. There’s been a small few who were into me but honestly I just wasn’t attracted to them. That physical attraction has to be there as well as the emotional one. I got one life and I am not settling on what I want just due to a genetic condition. But I don’t blame the women who aren’t interested either, looks do matter, just sad to think hair really is such a big determining factor for men’s looks and there’s nothing I can do but wear a wig (which I actually started doing-a full custom one, it’s 2024 and makes me happy).

But yeah, I’ve probably asked out 40 odd women in the decade I’ve shaved my head, all no’s. About 12 made it clear it was the baldness. (I always journal so I have reread this many times and remember the numbers, probably not healthy) and I’m sure others were the same. Just sad, really wanted to be married to a young woman I found beautiful and who I loved dearly. Didn’t care about much else. Not interested in waiting until I’m older, nor in dating women older than me. I’m 27.

Honestly friends I think I may clock out here soon. Love each other out there and please be kind. We all need to learn to take rejection yes but please be kind giving it. This world is mean enough.

To sum this up. I love that woman is not afraid to eat and keep her self fed and healthy. Plus curves on a woman make her look fertile. And attractive. Plus the mindset can be much more relaxed and free instead of overwhelmed by the unrealistic expectations of media or super restricting diets

I don't know what but ever since I been raised by a mom that is constantly obsessed with being thin as a fucking twig and all the struggle and next to nothing eating she goes through just trying to drop 5 lbs, I just don't see a need in it.
That's why I like to eat whenever I feel like and whatever I feel like in combination with lifting and excersize. That's part of the reason I'd rather my girlfriend be just comfortable with what she eats and wants to eat. I wouldn't want her trying ridiculously hard and pushing her self to lose pounds. I get how hard and tiring that is. Plus, honestly, I really like curves on a woman. Yes, even cellulite. Simply because it shows me that woman eats well and keeps her body from looking like a walking carcass. With all this said of course, you can guess I'm a lazy motherfucka that hardly works out a lot, but I do like what I like. A woman like this id help her do anything any meal she wants to make together I'm down for it, if she wants help changing her diet I'm up for it too but I sure as hell wouldn't want her to be bone thin and weak