What would you do if you found out your boyfriend was secretly destroying your hobbies?

[Anonymous]

I recently realized he’s been messing with my stuff or making comments to make me lose interest in the things I love. Why would someone even do that? Has this ever happened to you?"

[lightbulb27]

wow, that's poisonous. no, my wife very supportive of me enjoying hobbies.

time to visit a therapist, talk to them. but you may need outside perspective as to what is really going on. sounds destructive for control purposes, but who knows...

what kind of "friend"... would do that. now if you enjoy deep sea diving in a plastic submersible, then I get convincing.

[ohsheeT]

No that's never happened to me nor would I allow it to because once it started happening I would ask why and then I would think if they're willing to go this far with this something so petty what else are they willing to do I would have to say goodbye I think it's wrong I think it's just there's something totally mentally wrong with this

[Brokenheartedx]

classic move from a toxic partner. Belittlement first so he gets to keep you all to himself forever and ever having no friends just him.

Yes and I suggest you get rid.. That's how it starts off... Low end abuse that could end up getting worse.

[MissTrix]

Agree toxic and jealous! hobbies are a release to destress! Never get with someone who would never at least try your hobbies and past times!

Especially if his only hobby is video games.

[itsannalee]

Nope, my boyfriend always supports my hobby, and i do the same, always support what my man likes. And I’m trying to like it too, go into it.


But if he destroys my hobby, i’ll make sure i do the same to him.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Umm... okay, it sounds really bad, but can you be a little more specific about what's going on? It sounds like you're making videos and posting them online, and he was making anonymous comments about how much your videos suck? Is that basically the situation?

If that's what was happening, then your boyfriend was playing some sort of weird psychological warfare against you, and you should break up with him, and probably cut off all contact with him.

But maybe I misinterpreted your question, and he was doing something else. Clarification would be appreciated.

[genericname85]

how do you know he's making these comments with the intend of you losing interest? like sometimes people are just negative about shit they don't care about. maybe he just doesn't care about your hobbies.

[4ngelic]

if your not misinterpreting the situation, seems like he's a toxic guy that's trying to make you unhappy. this is your sign to leave him

[Unit1]

Were I a girl, that being would stop being my boyfriend.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Are you retarded? At your big age you should not be asking questions like this. Use common sense

[Anonymous]

Couples should only help each others' lives. He would be a goner.

[StevenMcGarrett]

You should break up with him. Find someone that supports you 100%.

[MannMitAntworten]

Yup…an ex-fiancé was like that and so much worse as time wore on.

[Abbycado]

He wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore.

[Danny_dan92]

Secretly destroying your hobbies?

[jamesgoldman]

That is part of the standard cycle of abuse

[Brokenheartedx]

I agree, red flags are flying high.

[Sofie01]

If my partner did that we be done.

[kaucky1]

Just excape

[Anonymous]

Jealousy