What would you do if your boyfriend was manipulative?

[Iceseeyou25]

Let's say you've been dating your boyfriend for 5 months and you notice that he's very manipulative. How would you respond to him?

[jkm1864]

Well considering that negative traits only get worse as long as the relationship progresses You might want to haul ass. I'll put it this way in a relationship the first 3 years is generally the honeymoon phase and that's when people put their best foot forward so if a bad trait comes up in the first three years then run because it will get much worse.

[jestergent]

I would tell that man HOW DID WE END UP TOGETHER. I was straight yesterday... Now you manipulative and you a man... This is OVER. Found excuse. I must have been drunk in vegas. How does one get a boyfriend as straight. How dare ye ask question.

[msss98]

I had that before i just left as soon as i noticed it. especially if its early on

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Leave him.

I don't tolerate being manipulated.

[worldscolide]

Leave.. Manipulation almost always leads to other forms of abuse.

[worldscolide]

@iceseeyou25 im not kidding. I was in a relationship with someone who was incredibly manipulative, That turned into her being controlling, and eventually turned into her being violent.

[Iceseeyou25]

Yeah...

[worldscolide]

im not trying to scare you though.. I just hope he doesn't go that far. A manipulative person is usually someone that suffers from BPD and or NPD.. neither of which are good.

[JackSmy]

Bye, bye dickhead!! Why would you put up with him, if you KNOW he is a manipulative prick? No woman deserves to be abused that way!

[venomhbk1313]

If my girlfriend was manipulative I'd dump her immediately I have no time for drama

[azbaeu]

One of my life mantras is that "I'm not that special"
If somebody is manipulating everybody around them and I'm around them they're most likely manipulating me too

[Anonymous]

I would leave him like Trump left the American people to die during covid19.

[Anonymous]

He wouldn’t be my boyfriend anymore

[Agape93]

Nowadays, I’ll leave them

[hellish-kitty]

If possible, I would leave.

[Anonymous]

a sensible person would leave