Search Results: not ready for a relationship

Pursued me then rejected me?

This guy pursued me first, and asked me out. I agreed and then he came up with a proper date plan and he seemed to be into me. Then a few days after finalizing our date plans, he randomly texted me saying he's canceling...

blueberry750

Xper 2 Age: 22

Should I buy her Roses in her birthday?

I recently broke up with a girl We were both expats and we were both in the same friend group She was not ready to commit and freaked out as we were getting close She did a lot of inconsiderate things which led to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think a narcissistic man would say this or?

I met up with a guy for some tea and we were getting to know eachother a bit… I post pics that are sexy/revealing but not too much. I mentioned that my dad used to be a minister…. I don’t know how it came about but he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I met up with a guy for some tea and we were getting to know eachother a bit… I post pics that are sexy/revealing but not too much. I mentioned that my dad used to be a minister…. I

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Girls, Am I doing The Right Thing?

Recently in about 2 months ago me and a friend started flirting in a group chat we're in together and I decided to take in a step further and meet in person. I known her about 5 months. I didn't want to put too much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did my situationship change his mind about me?

I started dating this guy 4 months ago, we went on dates and then after the first month, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship, so then we just became each other's late night bootycalls. We've been having sleepovers...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm desperate to settle down. How do I not scare him off?

I'm 28 and all I want is to get married. I see my boyfriend (he's 30, we barely began dating 10 days ago, talking 2 months ago) and mainly look at the fatherhood potential, apart from everything else that I like about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you wait a year to be with someone?

This girl and I been talking since may 18 2023. We finally met last year in September. Well she claims she’s not ready for a relationship but on her fb dating profile says she’s looking for a long term relationship so I’m...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever faced a challenge with your S. O?

I was thinking about my grandparents this morning -- part of a tough old generation that survived wars, famine, and countless sociological revolutions and evolutions unfold from their early youth onward... They married...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

We are only texting has our relationship become a textationship/situationship?

We have known each other for eight months and we've been on again of again. And now he says that he's not ready to see me which is weird because all I asked for was coffee not something serious. He calls me from time to...

shymuffin4

Xper 3 Age: 30

Should I be worried my boyfriend doesn't ask me to hang out or buy me flowers?

My boyfriend (22) and I (18) have been together for a little over a month now, and it's going pretty well, he tells me he is ready to settle down which is a huge reassurance to me as he is not dating me just to date but...

aRENEEanonm

Xper 1 Age: 20

My boyfriend (22) and I (18) have been together for a little over a month now, and it's going pretty well, he tells me he is ready to settle down which is a huge reassurance to me as

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Why do guys say they're ready for a relationship but they're not?

These streets are cold lol they'll even seem genuinely interested in you but won't seal the deal with a relationship or anything. I'm not even the needy or clingy type, just would enjoy something that a lot o people do lol

Selliebeanz

Xper 7 Age: 31

What is the main reason for women to engage in hookups and friends with benefits kind of relationships? Is it due to a lack of self respect?

In my opinion, it's mostly due to a lack of self respect that they're ready to give away their bodies to guys who won't even prefer to date them , forget about having a future. I didn't ask this question to say that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would this mean I lead him on?

I went out on a breakfast date with a guy co worker. He’s a gentleman, he’s sweet and nice looking. He’s very touchy, but not In a disrespectful way. He likes to hold hands, hold my waist, give hugs, caress my face etc...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he like me?

If a guy you gave a letter to and said in letter you liked them and the guy read the letter. Then your friend showed the guy what you looked like and was like I want to talk to her in person BUT he wasn't ready for a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I asked a guy out on a dating app but he turned me down?

I was talking to this guy for a couple days and since we seemed to have a good conversation I asked him to get coffee. To sum up his answer said he is super flattered by the offer but he doesn’t feel ready to give and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?

I met this great guy. We’re both Christian, not into smoking/drinking, good sense of humor, monogamous, great conversationalists/listeners, respectful, low body count, and have similar interests. But… — He’s younger than...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

My boyfriend wanted to break up then get back together once we're both ready. Do you think that's a good idea?

I personally think that would do us no good. I don't think this works for every couple. I do horribly when I'm alone, and I prefer to be there and actively work on the relationship with him by my side. He wouldn't do too...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this an avoidant attachment?

So, I have been talking to this guy for 9 months now, we have only hung out a few times in person because it’s long distance. I like to think we have a really great bond and we get along so well, we have never argued,...

ToxicoLuluz

Xper 3 Age: 32