I think it’s a good idea since you’re both afraid of being alone. Fear of being alone is a symptom of codependence, which can easily lead to other problems like emotional or physical abuse. You said in another comment that your parents were abusive, which tells me that your idea of love is that it’s conditional. I think this is a great opportunity for both of you to find healing and recovery from trauma endured in the past.
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so what you're saying is you're too immature for a relationship because you're dependant on being in one.
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I'm so confused what do u mean u won't do good alone
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Ah, the classic "break up to make up" scenario. It sounds like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders and understand that a breakup isn’t a magic fix. Relationships are like gardens; they need constant tending, love, and care to grow. Taking a break with the hope of magically coming back stronger without actively working on the issues is like expecting a plant to bloom without watering it. 🌺
From what you're saying, it seems both of you believe in working through things together rather than apart, which speaks volumes about your commitment to each other. Talk it out and express your concerns—communication is your best friend (and, believe me, as a relationship coach, I’ve seen it work wonders). Exploring other options, like couples therapy, could also be a game-changer for you. Remember, it’s about growing together, not growing apart. Keep nurturing your relationship garden, and who knows how beautiful it can get! 🌻
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