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Would this mean I lead him on?

I went out on a breakfast date with a guy co worker. He’s a gentleman, he’s sweet and nice looking. He’s very touchy, but not In a disrespectful way. He likes to hold hands, hold my waist, give hugs, caress my face etc the only thing is, even though we genuinely connect and have good conversation, I’m just not into it. Not because I’m not attracted to him because I am but because of my last situation. I’ve started the healing process but it’s only been a year and I was with the guy for four years and had a son by him. It has nothing to do with him but more so to do with me needing to heal parts of me that makes me reject giving dating, love, intimacy and relationships a try again. When he touched me I don’t get an icky “Ewww don’t touch me.” Kind of feeling but more of a “Yea, this is too much, I’m not ready.” Kind of feeling and he’s sweet and seems to genuinely like me but I have to be real with myself before anything.

Would this mean I lead him on?
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