Search Results: shy person

How to stop getting so rigid around women I like?

I have an issue when I finally get a chance to talk to women I like one on one, I tend to get very rigid. It is almost like an interviewer/interrogator, or we have an awkward silence due to not knowing what to talk about....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women Are Into You

So a lot of you guys are always worried or wondering if women are ever into you or want to know about you, and the answer is Yes, they do. But there is a catch: it may not always be in the way you would want or expect...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

8 24 See More

What do you think about talking to someone a lot and not wanting to meet on the same cruise they're on?

I probably wouldn't be interested romantically anyway, but I would've liked to have met and all that, and she wants to keep talking and be friendly, etc. She says she is very awkward or shy in person... or her mom would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is going through his mind, please help?

There is a guy at my gym who stares and smiles. I was too shy to smile back and would quickly look away. He often found me looking over. His friend would even grin in my direction on seeing me. Then the guy started to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Why would a man feel nervous around me?

I don’t do anything to invade his space, I am just there, everyday I go to the office, I catch him touching his hair or adjusting himself as soon as he sees me when I go into the office, he’s naturally the first person...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Girls, He asked about me to one of my friends?

My crush and I don’t usually talk a lot but we talk everyday just not enough. It ends short. I’m typically a shy person, takes a-lot for me to open up to people especially if I have a crush on them it takes longer. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why didn't she respond when I said hi?

My work crush walked into the break room while we were on break. We made eye contact and smiled at eachother, i then said "hi" but she didn't respond and looked around for snacks. She is a shy introverted person, but was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girlfriend and I can’t see eye to eye. Can someone help?

My girlfriend and I work for the same company. We used to work together. We now don’t. I used to be very social and friends with everyone. I was not out sleeping around, I was flirty from time to time. Not with interest...

nighthawk44

Xper 1 Age: 40

Is it a red flag if he wants to be exclusive & says he will tell other girls he is talking to someone but says he doesn't think labels are necessary?

he is a private person and likes relationships to be private because he doesn't like to answer annoying questions from his immature friends but when i asked him what we are he said "if you want you can consider me your...

Fluffybunny888

Xper 1 Age: 22

What does it mean from on older guy?

This guy said to a few people that he has a crush on me and he finds me attractive etc. And we often lock eyes, and he says hi and stuff, but he never comes to me and start a convo. Like if I go to him, and start to joke...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Feels like she likes me?

Well, this girl I've been crushing, who is also my college friend, has given me all sorts of mixed signals, that much that I feel like going crazy sometimes. There are some obvious signs such as prolonged eye contact when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my boyfriend lack a sense of humor or should I give it more time?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, but we rarely laugh together. We only laughed together like one time. I'm usually a funny person, I joke around with my friends and my family, and we all laugh together....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Question about poly relationships?

Hi I have a question about poly relationships. When a girlfriend and boyfriend meet a new person together , and the boyfriend is able to move very quickly into the relationship but the girlfriend is very shy and can take...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He likes me but says nothing, why?

This guy said to a few people, that he finds me attractive etc. But most of the time, when we meet, he makes eye contact, but says nothing. If i dont start a convo, then we dont talk. And he is absolutely not a shy...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does this korean guy like me?

So I met this korean guy in Japan, we lived in the same sharehouse for 2 months. I have reasons to think he likes me : he called me pretty and beautiful many times; he also fed me (like making me taste his ramen with his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What an I supposed to do and should I feel bad for this?

I just wondered how other people feel when admitting they've cheated in the past. For context the guy I've been seeing for over a year asked me if I've ever cheated, as it was a question asked during a TV show. So I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Can you be born with a natural aversion to people?

I was googling what is wrong with me that I can't stand to be around people. It lists various disorders people have. Anxiety. Fear of judgement and so on. But that's not what it is for me. I absolutely hate and detest...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Guy acting nervous or weird around only one person?

I have this friend who had some people over to her place for the weekend. I have kind of a crush on this guy, we will call him Tom who is good friends with her significant other. We are all in our mid twenties and Tom and...

M2090

Xper 5 Age: 31