My girlfriend and I work for the same company. We used to work together. We now don’t. I used to be very social and friends with everyone. I was not out sleeping around, I was flirty from time to time. Not with interest tho. There is a woman that my girlfriend knows from work but it’s nothing personal. Just know each other and have talked here and there. In my job I crossed paths with this same person. I was in an area she was. She casually how I liked the new job. I just told her not bad so far and kept it moving. This happened after I sat for a minute to take care of forms I needed to. I didn’t think anything of it. I know my girlfriend knows her also. I didn’t think much of it. A week or so later I my girlfriend brought her up. I mentioned how I seen her recently. She got upset I never said anything about it and was upset in that brief moment, I didn’t disclose I was dating her. She claims I had the perfect opportunity but I chose to hide the relationship, which isn’t true. I talk about her all the time. I was just not there for any other reason except to get my work done. I’ve never hid it or acted shy about it. So, big fight. I have her that reassurance. I love her. Only want her. I’m completely dedicated and only want her. I think the world of her and would never want her to hurt because of me etc. Went on for a few days. So she said if this person ever said anything she wants me to deny my relationship. Sounds strange to me. What ended up happening is I seen this person shortly after who mentioned to me they seen my girlfriend and how much she liked my girlfriend. I told her I much I love my girlfriend. Since we had a fight, I didn’t want to hide it. So, knowing she “wanted me to deny it,” I’m not going to act like she doesn’t exist. Now she wants to end the relationship because I’m disrespectful to her for another girl. I see this as completely unreasonable. What am I missing? Help!!
Girlfriend and I can’t see eye to eye. Can someone help?
