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I got turned on when my girlfriend Becky told she was a slut I’m the past. Becky used to have videos on pornhub and has had sex with lots of guys in her past. Most guys would’ve lost respect for Becky but I think it’s kinda hot. Whenever she tells some nasty shit she did with other dudes in the past, she does the exact same things to me. The thought of her making sex videos in her past turns me on a lot.

Becky tells me she’s glad that she had that past experience. Because if she didn’t, she wouldn’t want have known I was the perfect sexual match for her. And how she doesn’t think about sex with anyone else but me. I know these are generic lies that I’ve heard from hundreds of women. But her actions speak louder than words. She always checking me out, doesn’t notice other hot guys checking her out, she masterbates to my shirtless poster (I’ve come home early and caught her in the act), and texts me like crazy if she goes 6 hours without hearing from. Even random strangers commenting on how she seems obsessed with me.

My deep gut feeling tells me that Becky is loyal and really loves me, and that she really is sexually devoted to me. She is one of the prettiest women I’ve ever seen and no one has sexually pleased me the way she has. Aside from sex she’s a good girlfriend in general. Becky is the best cook and a good gamer 🎮. Lots of fun to hang out with. Wouldn’t wanna date anyone else.

I know most guys will think I’m a simp for saying this but, I don’t think it’s ok slut shame a girl if she’s currently loyal and submissive to you atm. And realistically, there's lots of women who get married as virgins and still cheat. Anyone you date is capable of cheating regardless of their past. You just never know how people will change. Drop your comments and let me know your thoughts on this!

Asked this woman out at my gym, she said no because she has a boyfriend. We stayed gym buddies since.

Then all of a sudden a couple months later she said she was breaking up with her boyfriend and wanted to take me up on my offer. After the breakup up though things took a turn. She admitted she has interest in me, likes me, but needs time. Since then things have been hit or miss. She doesn’t really text or respond (I barely text her now), no social media interactions on my stuff but does on other people’s.

Yet when I see her in person (usually at her work, she works at that gym) she’s happy to see me, could talk to me all day and does text fit a bit after I leave but then goes silent again. She says she’s getting me a Christmas present and wants to exchange on Christmas Eve after work.

I get she probably needs time, her ex cheated on her and from what I can tell was manipulative (she hasn’t really opened up about it to me). But I guess by mind is split. Part of me is saying her actions speak louder than words (not communicating, she does say she’s horrible at texting). The other part says she just broke up with her ex and is probably trying to work through that and keep me and the situation separate.

What are your opinions?