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Search Results: do looks matter
Is there any meaningful difference between Chernobyl corium and Trump?
Both are non-human, albeit human-made Both carry negative consequences for humanity for many years to come Both are ugly to look at Both are excessively toxic, collapsing masses of decaying matter Both need to be...
Danzigdawson
Xper 7 Age: 40 As we hit our thirties, does physical attraction matter less in dating?
I’ve found this to be true in my thirties, both of myself and of the men I’ve attracted. I am attractive, but I am too fat now to be truly beautiful and I’m starting to age a bit more in the face. Although I still look...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 What matters more in love: deep emotional bonding or intense lust?
A relationship built on mutual love, respect, communication, bonding, loyalty, and being one another’s best friends and staying by one another’s side even on the worst of days. Obviously the exceptions is cheating, abuse,...
In long-term relationships, do women truly value personality over looks?
I’ve heard this said a lot, especially when people talk about what really matters in a long-term relationship, but I’m curious how true it actually is in real life. Obviously physical attraction gets things started for...
BDRick
Xper 4 Age: 33 Is depression or chronic stress a valid excuse for treating others poorly?
And to define what 'not treating others well' is: No interest in, and little or no time for, the other. Asking no questions about the other's life or how they are doing. Being entirely self-focused. Looking for...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) 
Is it better being in a relationship or alone?
Dating for a gen Z male is really hard for most. Girls live on social media and seek perfection. Good looks, tall, in shape, rich, smart, enormousD I might have all those things and more - but it still is a kill joy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is there so much backlash and hate toward flat-chested women?
I’ve struggled with BDD (body dysmorphia) since I was 15 because I didn’t develop like other girls, especially in the chest area. My face is pretty average too, so I never felt like I had anything to “make up” for it....
Anonymous
(18-24) Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
What is the thing that broke dating for women?
I made a my take on here a while ago about "Men Go Their Own Way". Long story short im not with them. I love ladies. I want it work. Not just for me but like love and romance in general makes the world so much...
Lost_in_the_Woods
Xper 7 Age: 29 Has a teacher ever said or done something that stayed with you long after you left their class?
It’s interesting how sometimes the things that stay with you the longest have nothing to do with what was actually being taught in class… So…I had a dance teacher in high school who would single me out in front of...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 Is being physically attractive really a big advantage in life?
A fact? A lie? In my own experience looks matter greatly.
Anonymous
(25-29) Are women chasing novelty?
A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc... That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
When is it appropriate to divorce?
My wife and I have been together for a long time. There's been a lot of extremely volatile moments. I've been chasing peace in my life for a long time, and I've come to the realization that my wife isn't a bad person, nor...
Anonymous
(30-35) Falsely charged with sexual assault—should I stop dating for now?
I’m serious, I think I was falsely charged and I really don’t wanna put my dating life on hold? I was told by someone that whether I’m guilty or not (and I’m 100% not), I still shouldn’t be looking for women while it’s...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are all old stories true?
I'm pinching this question from Feeling dumb lately? Would this perspective make you feel better? ↗ Little Red Riding Hood is a popular children's story, but a lot of people don't know it was the French who first...
purplepoppy
Master Age: 26 How can I safely lighten my skin and feel more attractive in a pale area?
Not a troll so don't comment that. People still going to comment it forgive my grammar I'm still learning English. I'm tired of being single and I want fair skin so bad. I heard there is a limit on how light a person can...
Anonymous
(25-29) What matters most to you in life? Looks, Money, Fame, or True Love? and why do you value that above everything else?
# For me, I’ve realized that true love and meaningful connections outweigh everything else. Looks fade, money comes and goes, fame is temporary but the people who truly see and care for you are priceless.
Anonymous
(30-35) If evidence no longer matters in politics, what happens to democracy?
The government lies like hell about virtually everything, and we just sit there and swallow the lies more often than not because there's nobody to counteract them or contradict them. The President of the United States...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you go for your PhD in my situation?
I came back to school later than most. Started with engineering when I was younger, then I came back and switched to Business Data Analytics, and now I’m wrapping up an MS in Business Analytics focused on Machine Learning...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I unknowingly hurt my friend or is something else going on?
I have known him for 7 months and we've been friends for 6 months or so. He's a genuinely kind and empathetic person, is very respectful and has a great sense of responsibility. He's slightly older than me and is quite...
Anonymous
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