Is it better being in a relationship or alone?

[Anonymous]

Dating for a gen Z male is really hard for most. Girls live on social media and seek perfection. Good looks, tall, in shape, rich, smart, enormousD

I might have all those things and more - but it still is a kill joy because it’s not a game any man can truly win at. The game is unplayable because you can’t be the number #1 guy in every metric. How are men judged on 50 things…. What are women judged on?

👉 You might think well normal guys get girls. That doesn’t mean the girls really want them in an ideal world. Normal men are settled for. You would have to live knowing that you aren’t what a girl really wants. That if she could have more she would.

I have a girlfriend and I tick all the boxes and she’s really nice and even then she loves all this shallow stuff about me. It’s nice and makes me feel sad like All these things that shouldn’t really matter, that don’t even make a good guy. But this is how shallow and immature girls are…

Sometimes I do think it is better to be alone. But then how do you progress in life without having kids.

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[Sunrising]

It's much better to be in a relationship than to be single is my view.

A very intelligent person once give me some advice when I was very young, it's better to go with anyone if at all possible, (a female in my case) because we are all educated, rather than to live alone.

Many years later someone else suggested this was also the case, probably because they had found the right partner.

In my experience it's very true a relationship is better than being single, but if the wrong partner is involved I think it's better being single.

I've lived alone ever since I left my parents, perhaps I might not have been given the choice of being in a relationship, but I'm still reasonably happy, while in the news males and females are killing and abusing each other in their relationships.

Perhaps these cases are rare, but to a lesser degree people are unhappy with their partners, and are living with them because they feel there is no other alternative, and they don't think divorce is an option for them to make a fresh start.

[Redhanded1020]

In general being witho someone is more fulfilling and enjoyable.. although there are things that one must sacrifice to be with someone else.. somtimes I even prefer being intimate with myself..

[Nikki1989]

Dating is not hard for anyone if you know what you are doing. Stop making excuses for your failings in life. The fact you believe in all these myths about what women want just highlights how clueless so many men truly are.

[Sunrising]

Nikki for every male that's clueless there is a clueless female too 🙂

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you hate women this much, you’re better off alone

[Anonymous]

Stop lying about having a girlfriend. You wouldn't be making 15 accounts a week to whine if you did. Exactly 0 people believe you.

[Anonymous]

I never had a relationship, and I don't feel so good.

[Jeff51]

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