Search Results: get her to back off

23 d

Am I being too much for him or does he actually like my company?

So I've been dating this guy for more than a month now, just fun, nothing serious. At first I'd see him once a week for like 2-3 hours at night and he was asking to stay over. When I stayed over one night he started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

23 d

Is he losing interest or just busy? How do I decode his texts and mixed signals?

So, I am not the best date, but I want to try to be. I met this new guy around December and instantly we hit it off. We would text almost every day, he would plan dates for us (even got upset that i had to pay for one...

Anonymous

(18-24)

24 d

Is it okay to cut off an abusive brother from my life forever?

So recently my brother got mad over me telling him I didn't care for the fact he took me to the pier without asking he just said get in his car. He told me to stay away or he'll get police involved. He used to abuse me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

24 d

Why do we (mothers) always get the blame even if we're not available or very busy?

I really enjoyed motherhood even though I've been tired some days. Though we're expected to be nearly perfect as mothers and make no mistake. Even if we make a trivial mistake where no one is hurt, just something silly;...

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39

Flirting

24 d

Is this security guy flirting with me or just being friendly at work?

So I like this guy and he works in the same facility I do but he’s more police/security and every time I go through the gate I have to show my ID if he’s there hell always give me a wink and a smile. I don't know if this...

MaeMay

Xper 1 Age: 41

26 d

When a guy says “that’s my girl” during intimacy, what does it mean?

Just trying to figure out if it means anything since it was when I was going down on him. Things have been a little weird. Like we will get close and intimate then he backs off a little the comes back again. It feels like...

throwmeaway1111

Xper 4 Age: 26

26 d

Was I actually being difficult with this impatient drive‑thru customer?

I work drive through at mcdonalds and take cash. There were only a few of us in the kitchen, and we were backed up. This guy pulls up to the window who has probably been waiting a while. All he ordered was a coke. I ask...

Joe917

Xper 4 Age: 34

27 d

Does “coworkers aren’t your friends” apply to all social situations?

I fell out with a co worker dropped me off not to my house just to be safe but long story short this guy we both know. Asking me all these questions about him why this and that I just shake my head don’t say anything....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

28 d

Was it inappropriate for another man to help put my shoes on when my husband ignored me?

Me and husband recently went to a friends wedding and once we got to party my feet started to hurt so I took my heels off to go on the dance floor and party. The whole time my husband just sat at the table chatting with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

28 d

My husband is “mentoring” some girl who got laid off and it feels weird?

Some woman at my husbands company was recently laid off with loads of other people. She asked him to mentor her when she joined and was new in town. Now she’s out a job and they’re chatting on text and personal email. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

29 d

How do I move on from loving a man who still won’t love me back?

Okay so I met this guy when I was 11 years old and he was 23. He works for my dad and it started as a little school girl crush. I think he was aware as everytime id see him id go all red in the face and act shy but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

How do I handle an elderly parent who sabotages my lawn mowing?

He follows me around yelling and screaming and darting in front of the lawn mower trying to grab the mower off me. I try to do it when he isn't here. But if he finds out I am here doing the lawn he will back to'...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

1 mo

Does she like me romantically or are we just really close friends?

We’ve helped each other out plenty of times. Her more than me cause I’m always in a jam. I told her friend about my interest in her when I was drunk. I had some suspicion that my name came across there during the girl and...

MikeJones150

Xper 3 Age: 26

Society & Politics

1 mo

Did you know that people can mess with your reputation even when you warn everyone about them?

I told these motherfuckers not to trust this guy who used to work with me. I told everyone he's not working with me I haven't heard from him in days and the one mistake I made was helping him save face by not telling...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

1 mo

Does my guy coworker like me as more than just a friend?

A while back a guy at work called Ollie randomly started talking to me. We’d never really spoken before, so I was surprised by how friendly and polite he was. He asked if I’d had any further training yet and said we’d...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

1 mo

I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?

In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

1 mo

What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?

The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...

Anonymous

(18-24)