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Search Results: guy flaked out
Seeing a guy with mixed signals - what do these mean and what would you do?
I've been seeing a guy (im crazy about) for a month - we have a very strong connection and very strong chemistry. A couple weeks ago he mentioned he wasn't yet ready for a commitment and wanted to see where things go, to...
Eliza12345
Xper 4 Age: 36 Should I handle my boyfriend flaking on me directly or passively?
I've known my boyfriend for about 2 years, started dating a year ago and had a few blips on the way with a long NC from me for about 6 months when he was pursuing me. We have been on again for about a month and we first...
Radiate143
Xper 6 Age: 26 
Should I text him to ask what’s wrong or say nothing?
My boyfriend is a sweet guy. He’ll tell me every day that he loves me. The problem is I rarely if ever see him in person. We used to live 30 minutes from each other and now live 10. He is confined to his home atm and also...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Am I the backup plan?
I’ve been texting this guy I met from Instagram everyday for about 3 months. We both reach out , but we’ve only seen each other once. He has flaked, and when I brought up cutting contact he was against it. I Honestly just...
Shapay10
Xper 6 Age: 34 Why do people feel the need to help someone be friends with someone the person knew since childhood if he doesn't want to be friends with them?
Why do people care all of a sudden and what makes a woman get people to harrass you when u dont like her anymore after she flake on me for a different guy why i dont have my own rights can someone tell me this reason?
Anonymous
(25-29) What makes a woman get a group of guys to jump the other guy she use to like because he rejected her because she came back after rejecting me first?
PS she ghost me flake on me in the past now she comes back trying to talk to me but i lost interest am i the problem if she pick someone else and i was just an option i dont believe a woman can still love a guy she...
Anonymous
(25-29) What kind of relationship dynamic is this?
I’d love all ears to put in what they can make of this. A woman I used to have a fling with a few years back (never did anything-not even a kiss) recently added me on IG. Now, this relationship is confusing because we...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need advice is he flaking or serious?
We made plans to see each other he’s introverted it’s the flu season he works as a back of the house cook, so maybe he caught something… but he’s done this where we plan to see other and when the day comes he drops the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need advise on what to do?
My sister is pregnant and I'm very happy for her but she will be 9 month pregnant or just given birth around the time of my wedding and I'm scared she will either flake on being a bridesmaid and or doing the make up which...
Anonymous
(25-29) Help me understand this?
Hi everyone, Help me understand this very confusing dating situation please. Timeline: I meet a girl ("J") November 11th 2022. I text her that night, she responds the next day once, then ghosts me. She hooks up with a guy...
Lord_bdog
Xper 3 Age: 30 Girls, whats the main reason you flake out on a date?
Whether it's ghosting because you're nervous, something important came up, you really don't like the guy and don't know how to say no? Or you really have no intention of ever meeting even though he scheduled a date with...
red324
Guru Age: 37 How come girls complain about guys? Love bombing them but that's the only thing they respond to?
I'll give you an example if I tell a girl I want to meet like 4 days. After talking to her on the phone she'll probably flake and not show up. But if I tell her I can't wait and I have to see her now or tonight I'm more...
chris_987
Yoda Age: 38 Why did I get ghosted?
I met this guy at a rave/festival and we were kissing - not much talking tbh. He gave me his number and told me to message him- I was playing hard to get and said I’ll see but he was pleading. This guy he was cute ,...
Anonymous
(30-35) So, I lowered my standards to friends with benefits and now what, should I just be done with him?
Ok, was dating this guy.. He flakes a lot , he got me in the confused zone. So, I told him that I would like to develop a relationship with him and if that’s not what he wants then no hard feelings. He said he likes me a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this guy playing me?
So, this guy I've been dating always tells me to call him when I get home, I call him and then he says good, he texts me the next morning and says what a great time he had and will call me later in the evening. He then...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to move on from this situationship?
A coworker, but we don't see each other everyday, rejected me romantically, she said she isn't ready yet for a relationship. I think she still can't get over her ex, and I took it as a no. However she contacted me...
Mwarren33
Xper 1 Age: 35 Do you think he cares?
This guy from the gym & I kept making plans to hook up but he basically flaked on me a few times, we talk dirty when he's turned on he makes plans but then he doesn't see me. I basically started to leave his messages on...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you think take a guy would take this text?
In response to one of his earlier texts that said can’t help being sorry ( after he flaked ) So I left an updated message: No you’re actually not you’re just a bad liar. Look stop flaking stop ghosting stop...
Anonymous
(25-29) Input needed - he claims to like me, but his behavior is really spotty. Why would he be doing this?
I'm beyond annoyed and confused by this situation. This guy seems to like me. He is a little bad with reading women, has issues recognizing flirting, etc. I've done whatever possible to guide him to see I also like him....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a guy keep texting you if he flaked on meeting up with you anyway?
I had a bumble meet up propose to meet again, but he never really followed up with that request, because I think he was too lazy or some other reason - not sure tbh. After that he had left the town to pursue his degree...
Anonymous
(25-29) 