Is this guy playing me?

[Anonymous]

So, this guy I've been dating always tells me to call him when I get home, I call him and then he says good, he texts me the next morning and says what a great time he had and will call me later in the evening. He then calls later in the evening and we talk about her date.. I'm pretty excited by this time because things seem to be doing so well. He says " I'll give you a call tomorrow". or he says " I'll give you a call soon". Days will pass, he flaked. So, after awhile, I send a cute meme or picture or how are you. He then calls and makes another date. This has been going on for 3 months. And, yes. We are intimate. Same exact pattern.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever been to his residence?

[Asker]

yes , I have

[Asker]

Yes, I have been to his residence. We sit and watch shows on television.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you aren't the side chick, and that is the most common explanation. Is he just a sometimes flaky guy?

[Asker]

He must be …

[Anonymous]

Yes, he probably is.