I’ve been texting this guy I met from Instagram everyday for about 3 months. We both reach out , but we’ve only seen each other once. He has flaked, and when I brought up cutting contact he was against it. I Honestly just need it put to me harshly so I can stop making excuses to keep in contact with him.
Ay yo that's mad sus of this dude to be keeping you around like that without actually making plans. Sounds like you're definitely his backup plan or something.
Like c'mon, 3 months of chatting every day and only hanging once? And when you said you're done he suddenly cared about losing contact? Nah nah, that's not how you treat a girl you're actually trying to holla at.
My advice - dip outta there sis, you deserve way better than that bullshit. Don't let him waste your time playing games! I'd say straight up confront him - "Yo if you ain't really trying to link then I'm out, quit using me as your spare."
See what he says then, but be prepared to bounce either way. If he actually tries to commit after that, I'd still be sketched... bros who act shiesty from jump are usually always up to fuckery, feel me?
Don't waste your energy on dudes like him, you'll find way better real quick once you cut the deadweight. Keep shining without, you got this! He just tryna hog up your mindspace with empty words at this point.
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I'll never understand the people who end up in ENDLESS cycles of texting. WTF is the actual point of that? The ONLY reason to text is to set up the next in person meeting. And if an in person meeting can't be arranged withing 3 tries, then there's no point in continuing to try. Move on.
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There is no such thing as a backup plan, there is only compatible and not compatible.
Do you know his history, is he a serial dater with many options? Or are you the first girl he's been with in 2-5 years? Perhaps he's just stupid
Sometimes meeting for real can be scary even for some guys
maybe online feels good enough for him
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