Search Results: is he sincere

So many people talk about wanting to be attractive, and it’s not like I don’t get it. I’ve been pretty conventionally unattractive for most of my life, but I don’t see it as a flaw anymore. If anything, I more easily know who’s a good person and who isn’t because they judge me solely off of my looks and know that me being around them gains them nothing that they want for that alone. When you’re attractive, there are absolutely people who are vapid and vain and will gain something by having you in their circles or on their arm and you always hear the stories of women being stalked by men who took good manners as flirtation, or friends losing friends because they lost a beauty factor they once had. It doesn’t seem “real” to me, but when you’re not in that category, it seems like you find more sincere relationships that last much longer.

I feel like I am not that good at it especially when it's a stranger but once I get to know a guy, it starts to come out a bit.

Like last night, I sent a really suggestive song with a 😘 emoji to him and he sent one back with 😜😉 emojis.

In person, I suck at it though. I'm only kind of good at it through text which is kind of sad lol

I would say I'm a playful flirt.

So do you know how to flirt? What's your flirting style like?

There are 5.

Polite-a respectful and considerate approach to expressing interest and building rapport.

Playful-use teasing or humor to show interest.

Physical-uses body language and physical touch to express interest.

Traditional-involves the man taking the lead in initiating contact and expressing interest, while the woman responds to his advances.

Sincere-focuses on creating an emotional connection and building a meaningful relationship.

Hi Guys and Gals,

In one of my jobs I've been advised to promote daily affirmations. However small they may be, hearing a positive affirmation before heading out the door helps "manifest" a better day.

As someone whose life tends to be a running blooper reel of experiences I then use to help others get through work-life road bumps, I do check in with myself... make sure I'm on track... my mantras tend to be a bit on the sarcastic side, like... "Ok, coffee, we've got this..." as I grab my keys and head out the door.

Do you use daily mantras? I'd love to hear some of the mantras you use -- sincere or sarcastic.