Guys, Is your preferred flirting style sweet and sincere or sarcastic? What have you found works best?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Jokingly sarcastic / teasing in a playful way seems to work best for me when flirting with a girl , if I get her smiling then it makes me smile as well. I am also polite and respectful as well and talk to her the same way I would like her to talk to me. If the conversation is going well from both sides , then that’s usually when I will ask her if she would like to exchange numbers and continue our conversation , if she says yes , then I will ask her what’s the best time for her to talk , and then call her on that day and time

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I don't know if I have a flirting style. I feel I just talk to people like I do with anyone and if I like someone I'll ask them out or ask for a number. Something like "Hey I really enjoyed talking with you. Mind if I get your number?"

I don't think I'm more sweet and nice or more sarcastic. I

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My style has been sincere and open. If I like a girl, I tell her. If I thought the first date was great, I tell her. And if I meet and I think we are not a good match, I tell her.

Summeroflove · Answer

It just depends but flirting is only testing the waters to see if attraction is mutual for me.

OneViewpoint · Answer

The sweet approach is cringe. It screams simp.

Funny, sarcastic, and edgy is my style. " Wait, was that a compliment or an insult." "He did not say that." Punch her buttons and see if she can play. Or find out she's a dud with no wit or sense of humor. Find out if she can keep up or if she's still processing three comments ago.

David318578 · Answer

Sarcastic and teasing has always worked for me. Need the right kind of charisma to pull it off so it doesn't come across as you being an asshole. It's also a good early test to see if she is worth my time. If she doesn't have a good sense of humor then there is no point going forward anyway.

What has worked for you?

Purpleronnie · Answer

Teasing is fun , with a little sarcastic sparring if she is up for it. I can be quite complimentary too and often admit to liking them subtly thrown into the conversation. “Your fun , I like you” with strong eye contact seems to work quite well. I’m a purposeful flirter though , never do it just because !

Spencer10 · Answer

I am going to go with the humor method. I think pulling the heartstrings may have to wait till I know her better. At first best to keep things light... also a good way to find out how she responds to humor. That can be a good indication for me if its worth going any further.

Lokiion · Answer

I've always been a very sarcastic person. I've tried the sweet and sincere thing, but I can't do it; nothing I say when trying to do that feels natural, so I stick to sarcastic teasing and jokes, which has worked for me since it's fun and it keeps the conversation from being boring

Shiprex · Answer

Flirting is about stepping on and over each others boundaries of appropriate in a charming or cheeky way. Something that tests the waters to find the right spin that floats and flatters.

AffectionKing · Answer

It depends on the woman. But I’m a sarcastic/whitty type of guy and I tend to know how to joke with women without offending anyone. Mostly playfully sarcastic. Funny enough most women either learn how to be sarcastic and banter with me or they ramp it up.

AReyMarz · Answer

Currently talking to a girl by just being “weird” as she says (in my head I’m doing it to make her laugh). I say she’s the weird one for liking it 😂

Mark987 · Answer

Definetely some who sarcastic and that can laugh, you dont want someone to serious.

MicahRaine · Answer

Usually a mixture. I come from a family that has some pretty abrasive humor, but I tend to be more gentle around others.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It's probably a mix.. It starts off sarcastic, and then turns into sweetness.. First Sour then sweet..

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't really flirt... and if she did, I'll match the vibe...

exitseven · Answer

I just tried to be myself. I am actually pretty serious.

HippoDino · Answer

It really just depends on the girl. If she pokes fun at me and bullies me in a playful way then I match that. If she is a very sweet reserved girl then I match that and treat her like a princess.

Mikeynlade · Answer

I don't really have one bc each girl is different. Playful teasing seems to work on a lot of girls though.

HungTexan · Answer

Sincerity is always better if you want to get in a woman’s pants.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on my assessment of the woman I'm flirting with.

RavVid · Answer

A mix of both really. I am more ironic though than sarcastic. It does help to be amusing.

Professor-college · Answer

I have learned that it's best to be sweet and sincere

Ironco · Answer

I bet you know my a answer

Silver158 · Answer

sarcastic and teasing until she's laughing while taking off her clothes. lol

Twalli · Answer

I don't flirt. I treat everyone well. If it develops beyond that, all the better, but I don't flirt.

Jefftheduck · Answer

A mix of both but more being sweet

PaleDale · Answer

Sincere. I don't like games.

MikeRJ · Answer

I tend to be a sincere person in general.

CubaPirate · Answer

A mixture of those

Anonymous · Answer

C) I don't know how to flirt.

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