I hurt a guy with a girlfriend. He blocked me after an apology. Does he hate me?

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The feelings were mutual but we never discussed them. We pretended they didn't exist. He stopped mentioning his girlfriend snd we let things get intense. I kinda ghosted him. I explained myself eventually. Later, I really apologized. I felt horrible and guilty, and I thought it was something we both needed. My apology was real and sincere. Then he finally blocked me. I'm sad. He was important to me. I guess my heart just hopes he forgives me. I don't need him to tell me. This is the second time in my life my heart was broken, and I've been married twice.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

Nobody likes being ghosted. That probably upset him. Especially if you were emotionally close.

For the blocking though, perhaps the space you gave him was enough for him to ‘snap out of it’ so to speak, realize that he was doing, and he decided that it would be best to block you — probably to protect his current relationship.

It’s for the best. He shouldn’t have let his heart drift so much. This sounds like his way of taking back control and doing the right thing.

In the future though, here’s my two cents: Unless you intend to upset someone, don’t ghost. If you want space, tell them. If you don’t think you should keep chatting, tell them.

DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

By the sound of it he blocked you because he wanted to break things with his girlfriend, but seen that it has no chance with you either, he blocked you, otherwise he was risking to loose on Both sides, actually is good for you, as you would have become "his side chick" and i don't think you would have wanted that...🤔

hannamontana · Accepted Answer

Things got complicated, and the feelings were never fully talked about. You apologized sincerely, which really matters. Him blocking you doesn’t necessarily mean he hates you—sometimes people need space to protect themselves and heal. Forgiveness takes time, and not everyone shows it the same way. It’s okay to feel sad because he was important to you. Right now, focus on taking care of yourself and healing. With time, things might get better.

itsannalee · Accepted Answer

Move on. He has girlfriend, if he blocks you it means he prioritizes his girlfriend. Women support women, stop being bitchy and bother other women man.  Get someone single.