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Search Results: red flags
Girls, what are your biggest red flags on a first date?
What are red flags that immediately rule out a next date for you? One I have is a guy being rude to the waiter/waitress or someone working the register. Like they’re just trying to do their job and make a living and I...
bobafiend27
Xper 1 Age: 24 
Anonymous
(25-29) Is a guy using physical violence to protect you attractive or a red flag?
Mainly aimed at Girls but Guys can put their votes in as well as comment as the subject of the query This is a follow up to another question about men using violence because it would be interesting to discover the context...
Shiprex
Guru Age: 55 Anonymous
(25-29) 
Daslichgottes
Xper 1 Age: 23 Women who have social media besides Instagram, is it a red flag most of the time?
It seems like normal women only have Instagram and perhaps Linkedin, if that counts, most of those who seem to be on Twitter Tik tok etc seem mostly retarded. Do you agree?
Shrimpenjoyer
Xper 5 Age: 26 Is it a red flag if someone says they love me after only phone calls?
This isn't a scam. I am not being asked for money, they live in the US/I can verify their identity, etc. But we haven't even had a video call, much less met, how can you say you're in love with me? It's a bit much...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you make real life changes when therapy isn’t helping you grow?
I tried therapy, but it didn't work, I want to make changes but there are too many restrictions, also being an Indian is a red flag all in itself. We are burdened with economic and social status, Because some shit head...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
ThaCuriousGuy007
Xper 4 Age: 31 Is it a red flag if my boyfriend insists his future wife must work?
So I am dating this guy it's been 2.5 years now... everything was going well, he is studying and so am I , we are in late 20's now.. so lately he's been acting distant with me for the reason that it will take him long to...
Anonymous
(18-24) What does it mean when my boyfriend jokes about me cheating?
I cheated on him so many times he got mad and now months later he jokes about me cheating on him and when I’m with him he says cheater! Lol and smiles and laughs and says cheating girlfriend!! He says this quite a lot and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it a red flag when your husband barely post you on socials?
I’m posting him all the time, but recently he posted a vacation we did together, he posted the kids, him and everything else but not me. Then in a recent post, he posted me from the back holding his arm in the on the...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Is it a red flag if a guy ended things because he wants to keep his female friendships than build a good relationship?
Not that you asked him to choose, but it’s what he said and his mindset is at… while his female friendships has history of him being flirty with them and he knew it made you uncomfortable. So trust gonna take time to...
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Anonymous
(36-45) Is being pessimistic and easily offended a relationship red flag?
I am self aware that I am too passamistic, ego driven and have a low tolerance for some practical insults, specifically teasing. I also tend to keep people who are too positive at a distance because mostly they are rich...
Anonymous
(25-29) Boyfriend getting too close to my friend—am I overreacting or is this a red flag?
My boyfriend and I recently started dating near January of this year, we were friends for 3 years before this and both have been in multiple different relationships. He’s genuinely always been extremely attentive to me...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this dating app guy’s “I’m going to kill you” joke dark humor or a serious red flag?
a guy on a dating app has a prompt that says “something you should know about me: I’m going to kill you.” His second prompt says he kills people, and his third says if his phone dies, he’ll kill people. He’s 24
Anonymous
(18-24) 