Ladies, whats your deal breaker or red flag when getting to know a guy you've just met and interested about?

[ThaCuriousGuy007]

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2 mo

My red flags are liars, dishonst and racist/biggot people, but i have other smaller things that are redflags as well, i'll mention them another time

[queenofcardio]

Men with anger issues

Men that disrespect boundaries

Men that lack accountability

Men that make jokes at my expense

Men that overreact over minor inconveniences

Men that lack empathy

[bobalife]

Liars. I just can’t with someone who gaslight. I value honesty and someone who aligns with it.

[ThaCuriousGuy007]

fair enough, i agree with that statement

[SueShe]

I have a standard answer for things that I would consider a green flag. Just take this list and make it the opposite for the red flags. Ready?

If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me and placing emphasis on that tiny detail is a definite red flag.

[CriminallyInsane]

My gut just says something is off about him but the list of reasons that could happen is way too long to list

[ThaCuriousGuy007]

Ok so, what is an indicator for that, is it something he says, some opinion, the way he dresses, what is it?

[Nikki1989]

He needs personality; kindness and compassion; respect; intelligence; a sense of humour; honesty and integrity; good communication skills; and shared interests and values. Pretty basic stuff. If any of these seem off, it is a red flag.

[Sunshinelips]

How eager he is. If he shows how eager or persistent he is it’s a red flag to me. Wanting to see me all the time, wondering where I am, what I’m doing, who is with me. All bright red flags.

[Zionne]

not a gentleman