Search Results: spending time together

How serious is he about us?

Met a guy online.. known eachother for over 4 weeks. I've slept at his a lot, he makes me very welcome and also cooks for me. He's asked me if I'd like to go to Spain with him over December. He's told his friends about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should he be jealous of how Im spending my vacation time?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. We've talked about our future, about living together and about marriage, we really love each other. One thing I've noticed lately though, is how he gets jealous/acts...

KBird

Xper 6 Age: 29

I feel like I'm losing my partner to video games?

My partner and I have been together for 5 years, we've been engaged for 2. We live together too at my dad's house (whilst we carry on saving for our own) He's going to University so isn't employed so I'm the only one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I stop spending time with my mother?

I’ve noticed, whenever I start to get ahead in life, my mom and my exfelon sibling start bad mouthing me and trying to undercut my parenting. In reality, my mom caused a lot of harm to come to me when I was younger,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ghosted my situationship now he is going crazy?

So I was seeing this guy for about 3 months, things were going fine we’ve been spending 4-5 days together and every weekend since. He intially asked me out maybe 4 weeks in, I thought it was super early so I sorta said we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I being too hard on this former friend for what he did to my brother?

This was in 2010, when both my brother, and this friend were 12. We all grew up together. Friend told my brother, and I he is gay. We told him we had no problem with that, so long as he didn't try anything on us. One...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do you believe in coincidents? Or was this meant to be?

Don’t really know where I’m going with this. My kid goes to a kindergarten and the entrance to his kindergarten is the same entrance to another kindergarten. Anyways long story short when I first delivered my kid I walked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it bad that I spend every weekend with my best friend? My family says they complain that I never see them anymore and I’m always going over there?

I’ve been going there every weekend four months after my mother passed away. I used to go over spending the night once in a while and now it’s every weekend. I know they really love having me over at their house. My best...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Told me from the start wasn't ready for a relationship, when I asked if I should fall back cause I was catching feelings she said that would hurt?

Met this girl through a friend first night talking we talked for 5 hours on the phone. She stayed the night after a week of talking on the phone every night for hours, two nights in a row and we did sleep together, a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Friends with benefits?

I briefly dated a guy (about a month). He let me know he didn't feel the spark he was looking for. He said he loved spending time together and would love to be friends. I can see how we are not a good fit based on a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I briefly dated a guy (about a month). He let me know he didn't feel the spark he was looking for. He said he loved spending time together and would love to be friends. I can see how

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What would it be like if people stop being infatuated and love their partners for who the really are?

If everyone stop having crushes and stop loving an idealized version of their partners; a fantasy where you initially view them as perfect and think loving them is spending all the time in bed together... and instead...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Advice on long distance?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. We’re both 28—he’s American, and I’m from Europe. Throughout our relationship, I was always the one pushing for us to make plans, set goals, and create a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He's a Great Boyfriend but I'm Not Attracted to Him. What Should I Do?

I met my boyfriend in late March or April. He is sweet, kind, attentive, empathetic, responsible, and expresses love through gift-giving, from what I’ve observed. He often cooks for me when we’re relaxing at his place (I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are dates a way to know if someone is your type?

Going on dates is often seen as a way to figure out if someone aligns with what you're looking for in a partner. But are dates actually a reliable way to tell if someone is your 'type'? Can spending time together help...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you think adult friendships are overated?

I have friends most I've made at work but I don't know if this is just me but the older I get I feel friendships are so overrated. I have 2 older sisters who are very close in age to me and I've always felt like they are...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

What is going on? What should my thoughts be? How do I know if he’s being honest? Why is it that he prefers to mostly talk on Snapchat and text?

Long story short we have been friends for five years. We went on a first date five years ago and then we decided to be friends. Because him and I decided not to date immediately, then we decided to get serious 8 months...

Anonymous

(25-29)