Poll- is this friends with benefits, dating , a boyfriend or hookup?

[Anonymous]

I have to ask as there’s this stupid shit of situationship and friends with benefits thats popular and guys don’t want a girlfriend and just act like it but say they are single that’s why I need ask this question 😓

we spent 3 days together at his place , not much sex at all, but mostly seeing movies, talking, eating , cuddling , massaging , driving to stores , we have had one date so far as it’s barely 2nd weekend of meeting.
now we r meeting weekly at his place sleeping together in his bed at night. Then breakfast and get ready wake up together next day.

maybe next week will be another date and I plan cook him something and bring it to him as we don’t live together yet but spending time on weekend only.

friends with benefits

Hookup

boyfriend girlfriend

Dating

[PeachyPie93]

Ask him what you are.. lol
Just cuz a guy acts sweet or like a boyfriend doesn't mean he is your boyfriend and not sleeping with other people..

[Asker]

He gets possessive and upset don’t want me talk to other guys. So that must mean it’s serious. I don't know why the fuck people voted friends with benefits if we don’t meet for just sex. We spend time like a boyfriend girlfriend living together.

[Asker]

Also I don't know y one person voted hookup. Hookup is have sex and leave be gone next morning. We did not do that.

[PeachyPie93]

So why are you asking? If there is no label on the relationship I would assume its friends with benefits.. but why are you asking us to guess what it is when you can ask the guy and know the truth..

[Asker]

No point to ask my fear always come true 😞 better to just end things 😞 maybe it was a lie how he wanted girl cook for him n live with him daily 😓

[PeachyPie93]

LOL don't be a coward and just ask.. it might workout if he likes you. He could be lying but he could also be serious you will never know unless you talk to him about it.

[RHK36]

Could be anything at this point, not enough information. If you really want to know just ask him. Dating nowadays is very frustrating as people are more flaky about wanting something serious.

[Asker]

We’ll vote I just want see what people think.

[Avicenna]

Can’t tell- you should ask him what he wants

[Asker]

People voted friends with benefits 😞 so what’s a boyfriend then?

[Asker]

I thought dating & going to stores& sleeping on the same bed spending weekends was serious and a boyfriend?

[Asker]

We don’t meet weekdays cuz I work at night and he works in day. It’s still new so we aren’t living together yet. I assume living together means he’s my boyfriend too? He wants me live with him but obviously it won’t happen now cuz we just met

[Avicenna]

If you don't know where you stand, bring up the topic and discuss it. Like I said, I can't tell from his behavior what he's thinking.

[Asker]

I’m worried people voted friends with benefits , I thought this was a boyfriend girlfriend? What the fuck is. boyfriend girlfriend then? Don’t boyfriend gfs cuddle , cook food for their boyfriend, eat together? Sleep in same bed even husbands do that , how is this. friends with benefits?

[Asker]

We went on a. Date too. Haven’t been more dates yet as it’s barely the 3rd wk of being together. we r starting to date weekly. It’s not on weekdays cuz we work weekdays.

[FunkyMonkee]

Stupid is right!! There's NO SUCH THING!!!

[MasterKS]

less sex means BF-GF stuffs.