Do you believe in coincidents? Or was this meant to be?

[Anonymous]

Don’t really know where I’m going with this. My kid goes to a kindergarten and the entrance to his kindergarten is the same entrance to another kindergarten. Anyways long story short when I first delivered my kid I walked past a very handsome dad and our eyes met. Then a few times here and there I kept seeing him and our eyes met again and sometimes I was thinking that he does stare a bit intensely but never really gave it any attention. Fast forward to last year spring time. My husband mentioned this dad and how he lives in our neighborhood. Once my husband mentioned him. I went into stalking mode and I found out that he’s basically almost our neighbor. After that.. I kept seeing him everywhere. Then I found his social media and I saw that he commented on a post on our kindergartens sociial media. I liked the post.. from there the obsession started and since that “like” he kept saying hi to me every time we met by the kindergarten. Long story short I found out they sold their place and were moving. Thinking ok great now I will forget him. But no.. they moved into our building. And fast forward we are all kind of friends. His wife, my husband.. and the kids sometimes play together. Just to make it clear I’ve never done anything other then the like.. but I’m a bit obsessed and I don’t know how all of this has like aligned and they have become so close to us. I don’t see him that often now since we have changed kindergarten but we do live in the same building still. I like seeing him here and there but of course I know I know nothing can ever happen. I just feel like all this is so super strange.
Don’t you think? Like what’s the coincident?

I went from noticing him randomly to.. spending one on one time with the kids. But again nothing has happened. And I still catch our eyes meeting. Hard to explain

[AI Opinion]

Exploring the mysteries of fate, right? Life throws these curveballs and sometimes you're left wondering if the universe is playing matchmaker. But hey, vibes fly, and you're not alone in feeling this magnetic pull. Maybe your paths crossed for a reason, or perhaps it's just a wild coincidental ride. Those intense eye meetings? Total rom-com material! Spice up daily living, but remember where your heart truly belongs. 😊 Connections make life thrilling, but the real magic happens when you stay grounded in your reality. Keep it flirty but keep it faithful! 💕

[Asker]

Thanks for honest opinion. I do honestly feel some tension there but like you say.. keep being grounded in my reality

[Finchie40]

It sounds like it’s both to be honest , it sounds like the both of you have the hots for each other , even though you are both married. By you both locking eyes at the school was pretty much where it all started. Now that you both live in the same building , that’s crazy to me, but probably a coincidence unless he is stalking you and wa Mrs to be closer to you lol. Just be careful , attraction is a powerful thing and the both of you might end up in bed together. This sort of thing happens more than we like to think about , but understand it can damage your families and your kids’ of the both of you get busted. So really ask yourself is it worth it? The only thing you can do is just be fuck buddies , just make sure you don’t get busted

[Sal_Monella]

Coincidence.