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Search Results: tell someone you could not be with them
Would I be wrong to confront my friend about her filthy home?
I’m a nurse and quickly became friends with two of my coworkers. We’ll call them T and A. T has a boyfriend and a young child that she lives with. Anyways T was talking about how she has so much laundry and cleaning to...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night. I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 How do I change my view on men?
I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do men want someone like me but never actually choose me?
Hey, I see this very interesting trend. I meet guys, we have something. And they show attraction, liking, everything, in a way they get imprinted by me - then I see them looking for who I am but externally. Not with me....
Anonymous
(25-29) Do girls also fall in love with close friends over time like this?
I always tend to fall in love with someone in my friend circles in place of someone out. Cause the more they are similar to me I start to like them. And I mostly never say that to them as I know I am going to get...
Anonymous
(25-29) How is an attractive shy guy meant to respond to women who want me to approach?
My last question was meant to ask this. I am abnormal, though evidently in a blessed + cursed way. I attract women who think I am attractive, and who I find to be very attractive; but I have zero ability to approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I still in love with him or just grieving our breakup after 3 years?
So I fell in love with someone at 17 at the time they was 7 years apart so it was forbidden so I kept my emotions to myself but when I turned 18 I told him my feelings we talked very commonly after that. He made me laugh...
GoldenWerewolf
Xper 1 Age: 19 Can you tell when someone is truly intelligent or if they've just memorized a lot of stuff?
Can you tell whether someone is truly an intelligent person or if they've just memorized a lot of facts, big words, and such? How do you know?
u During an inconvenience, what do you think about when someone compliments you?
A new doctor i was seeing told me that i seemed nice and had a unique sense of style, but all I could think about was if he would sign my paperwork so I wouldn't have to struggle while im on LOA. A woman said she liked my...
Anonymous
(25-29) When You Around Someone Who Is Uncomfortable With Themselves And You Can Tell By Their Body Language, Does It Make You Feel Uncomfortable?
I get very uncomfortable when someone is kinda stiff and they look like they can't breathe easily around other people, maybe because of being stressed around people. I start to feel like it's hard for me to be around...
Is your mouth a peace and truth bringer or a chaos one?
In today’s world, so many misuse their right to speak: insulting others, twisting facts, or spreading lies just to manipulate situations their way. But here is the undeniable, hard truth this is exactly why people...
Anonymous
(30-35) Pushy neighbor obsessed with ocean view and my tree—how do I handle him?
Yeah, yeah, what’s up, back for a second, don’t get used to me, I’m still sick of y’all, lmao. Here’s one I’ll throw out to the masses though… My house has a very nice ocean view. We used to have a wooded lot between our...
How do you let go of people who no longer serve you?
It can be anything from friends, relationships, family, romantic potentials, and etc. I was having a conversation with my teenager niece about a frenemy she has who lies and goes after her boyfriend. But my niece...
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Why does dating always go wrong for me despite multiple chances?
Woman A: Were on and off for two years and she wanted me to commit to her. When I finally asked her to be my girlfriend, she was no longer interested. She said I was rude to her friends and belittled her job as a nanny....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does karma always seem to hit back when people mess with me?
I've always noticed karma always comes my way in life. Im a very out spoken person and if I don't like what someone is doing im quick to call them out on it. Because im a woman and its usually men im calling out on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was I actually in danger with this older limo driver or just paranoid?
Was in my early 20’s working at my dad’s spot & learned who the regulars were over time. One was this Italian limo driver, always known him by his first name, always tries his luck with me, but I always declined....
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you share that you have an SO? Why are some guys so AWKWARD about it?
Guys... some of you make me laugh the way you announce that you're "seeing someone" or have a girlfriend/SO. If I'm seeing someone -- and yes, to me that is synonymous with "serious"/"exclusive"/"boyfriend" -- I just say...
Can you stay sexually attracted to someone if you dislike their personality?
myself i feel like it wouldn't happen that much and was having a hard time even coming up with an example of someone i really liked but did not like there personality , feel like i might notice someone cause of there...
Anonymous
(36-45) Looking for Input From Shy People?
I am looking for shy people's input. I need insight. To give you a little background: I am a Professional Companionship Coach. I help people by becoming a professional companion (friend or platonic partner), and I teach...
uncarved
Xper 1 Age: 32 Is a 10 year age gap in dating really too much at 23 and 33?
This is kind of a curious question on my end. I know what I think of it, but I wanted to get some more opinions on the topic. There's this lady that shops at my store who I believe is not only one of the nicest customers...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 