Can you stay sexually attracted to someone if you dislike their personality?

[Anonymous]

myself i feel like it wouldn't happen that much and was having a hard time even coming up with an example of someone i really liked but did not like there personality , feel like i might notice someone cause of there looks but would need to meet them and get to know them before really becoming truly interested in them

i can think of this 1 girl that i meet at her work years ago , i recall see was brun and really pretty at the time. but back then i liked her personality and though we got along when we talked. it was weird later on her personality at least towards me changed and i didn't much care if i talked to her anymore. i also found out that just about everything and i mean everything she told me about herself was not true , for some unknown reason she had lied to me about literally everything and despite living in same town i never once even talked to her or saw her outside of her work

i still find her very sexually attractive and i'd imagine she'd be fun to have sex with but i really don't like her personality at all at least not the version of herself she was putting out there when i was around, i liked her in the past but don't like that person at all not one bit.

[Calyptomaniac]

Nope, if you're ugly on the inside, it makes you look ugly on the outside to me because that's all I can think about when I see them. Even if I can acknowledge they still have nice features, I can't think about anything other than how much I dislike them.

[Asker]

i know if i meet this girl now i would not like her at all , but i did like her when i first meet her years ago and she seemed nicer towards me back then but would have virtually zero interest in talking to her now and think she feels the same way towards me

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If the personality is shit but the face is pretty, I need to be told that the face is pretty because otherwise I think they’re hideous.

[Asker]

i'm not sure if her personality is actually that bad or if i just got on her back side and she was acting that way around me cause she didn't like me. cause when i first meet her i did get along with her and did like her personality

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So as of right now, do you want to stick your dick in her or not?

[Asker]

well i wouldn't be that interested in being in a relationship with her but as i said always found her attractive and always been very interested in her sexually , i really don't like the way she treated me but don't know if that is really her personality or if i just brought out an odd side of her cause she got annoyed with me , i liked the person i meet a couple years ago but not the way she is now

[Asker]

i find lately i just crave sex a lot , is a couple girls i've seen at the gym and they drive me nuts , never ever saw the girl i'm talking about at the gym , can only imagine if i did it would of been extremely hot to see her there, not entirely sure why i never saw her anywhere else as we lived in a fairly small city of only 20,000 and usually see same people in different places in town

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It was a yes or no question, my man. Didn’t need a whole essay about it

[Asker]

well meant yes to sex , no to a relationship unless her true personality is better and is what it was previously

you have to understand she lied to me about everything , provided no apology or explanation for her strange behaviour and then just acted weird around me ever since

apparently she found a new job in another city but her co workers didn't seem to want to talk to me about it , i didn't ask just noticed she wasn't there anymore , another guy asked and they mentioned something about a new job somewhere else not sure where

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then fuck her and move on

[Asker]

i never got to have sex with her which is perhaps why it was hard to move on as i had really wanted to experience that , i did buy her a shot at a bar a few years back but it didn't lead to anything

it just really sucked to meet someone like her in your hometown and then never get to even see them anywhere in your hometown other than there work , we could of had so much fun together it just really sucked

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then buy a fucking sex toy and stop talking

[Asker]

the only thing i can think of that might be realistic would be have sex with someone who is similar to her in terms of looks/personality, is a girl who works at my gym who oddly resembles her and i've talked to her before and she seemed ok with me but seems like an odd thing to do unless i actually liked the new girl for reasons beyond that she looked like other girl

[MrChinaski]

Nah. I only have sex with people I love.

You do what you want. That's what works for me.

[Asker]

i still loved her i just didn't like her personality or way she was acting around me anymore , we used to talk and she seemed friendly but she just started to act less friendly towards me and she didn't seem to be comfortable talking to be in an open and honest way and seemed to lie to me a lot even about little things of very little importance

[Billlewis]

For many women, that's the go-to guy: a jerk during the day, but a stud in the bedroom.

[karley55]

Yes you can definitely do, my ex was very handsome, tall, muscular, tattoos and sassy but he had a terrible personality. We were too alike and no one could win in a fight so nah I had to let him go

[Abbycado]

Nah, that wouldn’t work for me since I don’t place that much importance on sex compared to personality.

[Nikki1989]

Not a chance.

[lilBigPotato]

Nope, not for me.

[exitseven]

Yes, just do not think about their personality

[jahaims]

Nope

[dudeinohio]

Not really