How to remain attracted to a girl that's physically not your type?

Anonymous

Looking for some tips on this, I'm 36 6' tall and now 190lbs, lots of well defined muscles and 9% bodyfat after years of being morbidly obese, near 300lbs at my peak.

girlfriend of 4 months, she is 23, 6'4" and 280lbs. Liked her sense of humor, character and personality.

She was in a 7 year LDR with her ex-bf, I began talking to her online 5 months ago, then met up 2 times, then on the 3rd time she had just broke up with him 4 hours prior when we met, we hung out at her place, one thing led to another and I steered it towards the bedroom. She didn't say no when I asked her if she was ready but she said she was still virgin hoping I would not do her that evening as she had been in that same situation with her ex-bf where they had fooled about and it ended with a handjob or blowjob, I didn't actually believe she was a virgin as I thought she was just pulling my leg and began inserting into her.

Since then she's stuck to me and things are okay but sometimes feel she is just not my type due to her weight and body type. Don't necessarily want to break up with her and she definitely has every intention of it leading to babies and marriage.

Anything I could do to maintain this relationship?

How to remain attracted to a girl that's physically not your type?
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