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Search Results: why did he contact me
Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) My husband is “mentoring” some girl who got laid off and it feels weird?
Some woman at my husbands company was recently laid off with loads of other people. She asked him to mentor her when she joined and was new in town. Now she’s out a job and they’re chatting on text and personal email. He...
Anonymous
(30-35) Anonymous
(18-24) Is this coworker actually interested in me or just being friendly?
This girl has rarely joined my convos in the past and I never said much to her til now. At a bar she was having a discussion about if she wanted kids or not. She said no and then the discussion kept going on and later she...
TheCoolUser101
Xper 4 Age: 21 Why did this flirty guy say he’s visiting my city, then go silent?
After 1.5 months of no contact, a guy I flirt with on and off texted me on Wednesday saying, "I'm coming to your city this weekend." I kept it casual and replied, "Cool, see you soon." I left the ball in his court to make...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I handle the breakup well?
My girlfriend broke up with me and gave me loads of reasons why she didn’t want to be with me and I gave in to all her requests which may have made me look desperate tbh, but I liked her. She kept saying not sure, not...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I cope with a constantly negative, victim-minded mother?
I have a mum who is often very negative and constantly complains about the same issues, but at the same time she says she doesn’t want help or advice. I find it difficult because if someone doesn’t want support or...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do some people obsessively chase someone who clearly isn’t interested?
This is something i see in men and women both. I will give an example i saw recently. My wife has a female friend who comes over occasionally for lunch on Sundays. Recently she was pretty much crying on my wife's shoulder...
Anonymous
(36-45) Reasons why you chose to be single?
As someone with Asperger’s I know I can be off putting to men but at first I thought I have a chance until at the age of 21 I did research and what to expect in romantic relationships. Turns out I couldn’t sacrifice my...
MyraTan
Xper 3 Age: 28 I hate charismatic men…. Why am I so mean to them and roll my eyes at them?
I hate men who are nice to you and make you “feel” special… making eye contact.. “staring in your eyes/soul” when in reality they’re just playing you.. it actually does hurt a bit when you find out they’re taken and they...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my ex suddenly liking my posts again after months of no contact?
4 months after break up, I live my best life… I made a trip for my brother to come here with me and organized a very fun trip for his birthday, having the blast together with my friends. It was always my dream… Now as I...
As a feminist, how would you respond if your best friend chose marriage and being a stay-at-home mom?
I have this best friend. she's somewhat younger than me, Early Thirties. She recently announced that she got married. Personally i am overjoyed. As someone who fumbled her husband quite spectacularly i am very happy when...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is this guy so hot and cold and always singling me out?
Sometimes i get the feeling that he is paying attention or notices me from the way he says some things. Like he literally said to me why are you not laughing at this joke, or when i do laugh he also points that out. He...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is it so hard to get a job even when I apply everywhere?
I put in so many applications and only hear back from one hand full of people. I never call to check in applications because usually if they don’t contact me that often means they weren’t interested in interviewing me....
Tonita026
Xper 3 Age: 29 Girls, Do guys ghost you after sex?
Ghosting meaning after sex they ignore your texts and never talk to you again after you both agree to hook up and meet on a hook up site. Does this ever happen to you and why isn’t it normal for this to happen a lot?...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why don’t my brothers ever reach out or contact me first?
I have two brothers. One is my twin. If I don't call or text, they go to my mom, and my mom makes me talk to them anyway. One is 22, and the other is 27. My aunt and uncle would call me randomly.
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is this shy gym guy now showing up with friends and smirking at me?
There's a guy at the gym who caught my eye and always got shy either looking down or would laugh shyly or avoid eye contact altogether. But when i stop looking at him saw him visibly upset. He would skip days and continue...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this a red flag?
leave me on read for like 8hours, when I’m not around him but go on his phone when I’m around him, but then feel some type of way if I don’t initiate contact, or be the one to call him first? that’s exactly why I don’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) If you have bad eyesight, do you honestly prefer glasses or contacts, and why?
Contacts seem uncomfortable to me. So, I'm sticking to glasses even though I hate wearing them.🙄
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 