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I’ve see some guys who just ignore their girlfriend when they’re crying… I understand some girls use crying as a “tactic” to get what they want so that might warrant an indifference reaction from the boyfriend but I’m specifically asking about the instances where the boyfriend is the one causing their girl to cry (e. g. after yelling at them, cheating on them, or doing anything that might’ve hurt their girlfriend which resulted in her crying). I’m also aware that some people get flustered, confused and lost on what to do when they see a person crying but in my personal experience, I rarely ever see a guy comforting their girlfriend when she’s crying…

I'm not even sure if cheating is the most hurtful thing to do to a partner. What about if they don't cheat but they abuse or beat you? By getting abused/getting beaten, there is no respect, trust nor security either.

I think I'd rather deal with dumping a cheater than getting a restraining order against an abuser. They can also tend to stalk you if you try to leave. Fearing for your life and/or safety has got to be the worst feeling ever, more for us women.