Search Results: how do you know if a guy is into you

I keep having chronic health problems and now im worried how a boyfriend will deal with it?

Im always having to go to the hospital and doctors appointments and im grateful I have my mom to come with me and stuff. But I want to have a light relationship. What guy in their 20s/30s will want to spend their...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How Do I Look?

Girls, Which of these should be my main profile picture?

Ok. I have messaged a few ladies with Xper much higher than mine (I am new and Xper 2). and asked their opinions. I have mixed bag of results from no pictures to swapping the pictures. A lot of ladies told me their...

Sparklight

Xper 4 Age: 33

Society & Politics

What activities give you the most carbon guilt?

I know how it is. You talk about “saving the planet” while streaming six Youtube shows, hopping on a plane to a Tesla protest, or ordering an oat milk latte for home delivery. But, hey, it's Ok as long as the delivery guy...

Douglas1180

Xper 5 Age: 46

I know how it is. You talk about “saving the planet” while streaming six Youtube shows, hopping on a plane to a Tesla protest, or ordering an oat milk latte for home delivery. But,

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Guy's Behavior

How can men tell after talking on the phone or via text IN ONE DAY or a few hours, that I’m not street smart and would fall for “I want to marry you”?

This happened multiple times. And no it wasn’t them joking. They would keep taking marriage plans even after saying it the first day. One of the guys who did this , I was very into. So I get how he probably saw that I was...

Iotititi

Xper 1 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls always bump into me or touch me or go in front of me in crowds?

Seems to be girls more then guys and younger women. They’re like sorry but it’s like they wait me out to go in front of me I don't know just something I’ve noticed

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why do you think your way is the only way?

Oh so many of you are soooo. I don't know, immature. If people don't live the way you guys deem right, then they're not doing life right or just wasting their times. I find this especially bad with Americans, they truly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

For those in long term relationships or marriages how do you keep the passion and your sex life alive?

I mean I’m sure it’s common for a lot of couples to get into ruts especially the more longer term relationships, but seriously how do you keep the passion and your sex life alive? Do you ever find that the passion...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do you think that some people value the chase more than the connection?

For example, a book I found shared the data that people with magazine subscriptions read less than 10% into the magazines that get delivered to their house. They subscribe because the idea of owning a magazine is more...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

Question for older Married Men , Did your marriage survive when your wife hit Menopause or a Midlife Crisis?

When my ex hit menopause/ midlife crisis , that was the beginning of the end of our marriage , My wife changed right before my eyes , she became someone I no longer knew anymore , like this crazy ass selfish immature girl...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Society & Politics

Do Women Assume That Men Will Be Mean To Them?

I think I have ran into this several times. Where a woman assumes that I don't like her, even though I do. It makes me scratch my head and wonder what did I say? What did I do? I heard one woman on youtube say this,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

How do girls feel when you fumble them do they just automatically become turned off?

I’m just going to guess not much or any sympathy for the guy because at the end of the day all she wanted was a boyfriend. I guess it doesn’t matter who I understand moving on if it’s not working but jumping into a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is he being inconsiderate?

bigdreamer1

Xper 5 Age: 34

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed to go to a client dinner with him so I cancelled my original plans. We are hosting the duo we just went & visited this last weekend since they are coming into town for a wedding. Last night on our way to dinner he lets me know he’s going to a guys night tonight & so I reach out to one of my girlfriends to hang out. Today he asks if there’s any way I can leave work early & I do. I let him know I can & that i’m running 2 quick errands first. I get home & he’s playing xbox and asks me to blow him. I the comment & start doing chores. After I have been home for 45 minutes he comes to me and starts undoing his pants &gesturing to give him a bj, I just stare. He mouths how I never want to “take care of him” and walks off. I tell him the reason I am not is because he is going to be gone all night with the boys &when I come home he’s playing games with the boys for 45 min so I don’t feel obligated to serve him when he’s not considering the time with me. He states he isn’t going to fight with me and I told him I’m not fighting just telling you why I’m not giving you a bj. He goes to lay in bed &I go lay beside him while he scrolls social for about 20 min before turning away from me &acting like he is going to sleep. I get up to feed the dogs and go to sit by the pool and within 5 min he is leaving the house, not saying a word to me, then texts noticeably annoyed that he will be gone until boys night starts. This is somewhat a common occurrence when he doesn’t get his way, he’ll ignore me even if I try to talk to him he won’t respond. I just don’t see why he doesn’t get we have &are about to spend a lot of time with his people &I’d like to think he’d take advantage of our alone time, not use it to continue to spend with others and only give me attention if intimacy is involved. General thoughts?

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Dating

Do you think it’s wise for a Single Guy with no kids’ to date a single girl with kid or kids’? why or why not?

I been coming across a lot of articles about why a single guy with no kids’ should never date or get into a relationship with a single girl with kids’ and the primary reason is because the single mother is just looking...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Dating

I am planning to ask an ex to be friends, bad idea?

Hi guys, I dated this guy for only three months. We met at work, we don’t work together but work in the same building, and we hang out with the same friend group. At the beginning everything was nice and we had a lot of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is my landlord harassing me and out of line?

I moved into this townhouse 2 years ago. Advertised as luxury, maintenance free , but since moving in I have paid myself out of pocket for all extermination, air filter changes, drain clogging fluid, and many other things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girl playing with my emotions?

try to make this short.. so i been talking to a coworker for a few months. she knows im into her but to make it short i missed my chance she got a boyfriend. problem im having is we snap very regularly, she used to snap...

bulatz

Xper 1 Age: 31

Dating

Does this guy really want to hang out with this girl?

I walked into class and there was this girl and guy sitting next to each other well kind of like across from each other side to side. I couldn’t help but hear what she was saying because the room was almost empty and not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Am I asking my husband for to much?

My husband works out of town Monday-Friday and usually gets home at like 3AM Saturday morning. During the week while he’s at work I tend to our 12 week old son, our 3 dogs, and keep up with all house work. On the weekends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Entertainment & Arts

Gladiator II (2024): My Honest Review

Wassup, GaG? Back at it with a nother honest movie review, and while you’re here don’t forget to hit that Like button and subscribe lol Alright, so I am very late to the party again and watched Gladiator II for the...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Flirting

Is my boyfriend’s friend into me?

Hi everyone, I’m in a committed relationship, but something has been going on with one of my boyfriend’s close friends — let’s call him “J” — and I genuinely don’t know how to interpret it. I’m not good at reading social...

Anonymous

(18-24)