Do you think that some people value the chase more than the connection?

[jennifer_bloom]

For example, a book I found shared the data that people with magazine subscriptions read less than 10% into the magazines that get delivered to their house. They subscribe because the idea of owning a magazine is more valuable to them the actual purpose of the magazine, which is to offer them a chance to explore the knowledge and experience of others.

I remember there was a guy who spent two years trying to be my friend because he knew I hated him, and when I actually talked to him like a friend, he lost interest in ten minutes. He liked the forbidden idea more than the actual person that the idea was built on.

[BloodyMary6]

Only players like the chase. I don’t mind some challenges as long as there's a connection.

[DawnB]

Yes I really think so do I even think I use to be like that

[ohsheeT]

It's sad but yes, time spent in the chase was ment to connect heart with heart spirit with spirit energy with energy and temple to temple

[kmg9150]

Well its human nature to want what we dont have, not to say we dont still want what we do have, but its a different kind. Ones the I got to get it, where as the latter is I’m not getting letting go of it.


We are wired to feel reward and see more value in what we “chase”. Just a natural human behavior, but this is also per se a “requirement” for females to chase for them to fall in love..


I dont really like the magazine subscription example, that seems more like a behavior for the need to show status by materialism.

[Jove79]

Why would he all of a sudden love to be your friend after he’s tried for years to be your friend.. with you hating him? So you feel like you can all of a sudden be friends with someone you rejected and hated just because?


Feeling towards others slowly change, for the good and for the bad.


Maybe you got a taste of your own medicine.. I don't know

[MysteriousDarkness]

In this context to chase is to go after someone who doesn't want you. Only fools chase. Not sure why anyone would perfer to chase rather than having a connection.

[Alex-Snow]

I'll take the connection any day it is way more fun

[Xawyx-2]

Some people probably do... not me, but unfortunately, many people are just like that.

[bddddd]

'Thunder only happens when it's raining'

[Johtolol98]

yes unfortunately some people are like that

[Aldan1609]

Yeah, probably