Why do I like the chase more than the commitment?

[aubsanderson]

I think im mature and I've been in 3 relationships so i have experience but whenever i know they like me back and we start dating i loose feelings then move onto another person why does this happen?

[Finchie40]

Sorry to say but truth hurts , it’s because you are selfish , and you are only really thinking of yourself , you aren’t wearing your partners shoes , you are only doing what you think is best for you , It doesn’t make you a bad person but it also doesn’t make you a good person , you will never experience true love if you can not eliminate selfishness , Everyone has selfishness in us , but for a relationship to last and grow you yourself is going to have to learn to remove selfishness and put yourself in your partners shoes. if you can’t do that then you are best not to get into a relationship at all because all you are going to do is give yourself a bad reputation when jumping cock to cock catches up to you , you will be considered a whore sorry to say and probably end up with STD’s , So you are going to have to stop playing the game of chase and realize the only way someone will value you is when you value them or you will never experience true love , some people just aren’t capable of being on a relationship because they allow their selfishness to take the better of themselves.

[Anonymous]

But you're "mature"? lol ;) Just teasing. I think you just are "addicted" to the initial excitement of meeting someone new, and don't necessarily want anything serious (and like the attention)? Not uncommon, with younger women especially, but keep in mind you're also paying with other people's feelings.

[aubsanderson]

Maybe im not mature then 😂😅 thanks tho for the insight

[Honesttguy]

Feelings, you must be confusing lust for love.
Chasing is arousing (lust based), love is commitment for life. Its completly different feeling and on different level.
You think with your pussy rather than heart.

[Chill_Thoughts]

The seduction game is just a lot of fun, even if you don't actually have feelings for the other person. You'll know when you meet someone that will not only seduce you and be seduced by you, but also will make you fall in love

[Lionman95]

Because you maybe have commitment issues that makes you want to get the attention by guys but you can´t settle for a relationship anymore.
Like you´re not actually interested in the guy.

[007kingifrit]

you're probably too idealistic, you think that it's exciting to see the unknown. but growing familiar with someone inherently means not being excited anymore.

you have to learn excitement is not the thing to seek in a relationship

[boggboss]

Because u never actually liked that person but the feelings of getting them to like u

[jahaims]

It means you are picking people to date for the wrong reasons. Maybe you don't even know what you want and need. You need to be more honest and introspective.

[IsoUser]

You're as old as my youngest twin daughters. Of course you love the chase after something that you can never have or handle Lol.

[anylolone]

Well, the validation and you have commitment issues.

[LazerBean]

Poor upbringing and/or poorly developed brain.

[FilmGuy93]

Because it makes you feel wanted and in control.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are a shallow 304.

[driven159]

because you get a rush from the chase