Search Results: is he shy or not interested

What should I do?

I asked a girl from my workplace on Monday (4 days ago) she said she will have to check her schduele. Ever since that invitation the girl looks at me and smiles when she walks past me in the hallway. What should I do...

magicturtle

Xper 5 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

Why did I get ghosted?

I met this guy at a rave/festival and we were kissing - not much talking tbh. He gave me his number and told me to message him- I was playing hard to get and said I’ll see but he was pleading. This guy he was cute ,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Shy guys- would you approach a coworker you’re crushing on & strike up conversation or not so much?

I feel like my shy coworker has a crush on me…it’s a gut feeling but also he stares a lot & goes out of his way to pop into my work area. But he has not talked to me once in 3 months. I keep thinking “if he wanted to make...

TianaG

Xper 2 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Guys, when it comes to a crush, how can you tell if he is shy or just uninterested?

My crush used to look/stare at me a lot but now its becoming less and less frequent. Sometimes it feels like he is losing interest but other times it feels like he is just shy. How can I tell the difference?

taetaetoffee

Xper 1 Age: 21

Society & Politics

The False Promise of Looks: A Surface Deep Liability

In many online circles of unhappily single men and women, attractiveness is heralded as the barrier to romantic access and relationship success; and whilst it is true that an individual's appearance determines how...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Guy's Behavior

Why do boys (romantic interests) never say my name when they speak to me?

My two ex boyfriends have very rarely ever said my name in conversation. It seemed like they were always shy to say it or something. They just used to speak to me directly without ever using my name. Has this happened to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girl behaving strangely?

Have a female crush who is also a coworker. We flirted back and forth a bit for a few months, but for various reasons we never took it further. She seems like a very shy girl so I always factor that in to her behavior....

PJohn

Xper 2 Age: 35

Flirting

I decided to ask the guy I hung out with after a party to hang out I can't tell if he's genuinely interested?

So there's this kid i've been snapping back and forth (he's shy and innocent) and I decided to ask him to hang out and he said : "yeah lets do it" I said "ok do you want to come to my place?" He said "we'll see" and I...

classygirl2003

Xper 1 Age: 22

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy look at me from a far, but completely ignore me/act like I don’t exist when we’re closer?

There’s a guy that I’ve seen kinda lingering around me during the day and he won’t really make eye contact with me or even act like I exist when we’re close enough, but I do see him looking at me from across the room...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, why am I never approached by you?

For all my teenage years I had wondered why no guy has ever approached me. And I would very much appreciate to receive constructive criticism from new perspectives. I am a 19 year old 5’6 Scandinavian girl with long...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

People tell me I'm hot but guys don't message me on dating sites?

I hate my looks so this isn't one of *those* posts, I'm looking for genuine advice lol People irl, both men and women always act like I'm some out of this world goddess I swear. I genuinely don't see it but well. I'm in a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, Under what circumstances can a girl kiss him for the very first time?

This guy is very nice and caring but very shy. He won't even hold hands, let alone kiss. He is watching you from a distance and is obviously interested in you. Should you go out of your way and ask him out? And when you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is it time to take things to the next level with her?

This girl at work just moved here. A week or two after we met while we were opening up about Christianity and she told me she was bisexual. Our connection has been great people have asked if we knew each other before...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Flirting

He’s engaged but is he flirting with me?

I’m on tumblr, you can go live similar to TikTok IG and give gifts like money. there's a guy that joins, he’s my top gifter most times. He’ll stay on my profile and chat with me until i end the conversation with...

okquy

Xper 2 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

This girl at work confuses me?

This girl at work just moved here. A week or two after we met while we were opening up about Christianity and she told me she was bisexual. Since then, our connection has been great people have asked if we knew each...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Im getting mixed signals from a coworker and I am wondering if she likes me or not?

Hi all, I'm currently am interested in a coworker who I have been talking to. She showed signs of interest but also is giving me some mixed signals. Signs that shows she is interested: - She asked about my family and we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is my friend showing romantic signs?

This girl at work just moved here. She came out to me like a week or two after we met while we were opening up about Christianity and she told me she was openly bisexual and I told her I was an ally. Since then, our...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Why would he give me obvious signs that he's interested but when I made a first move he ignored me?

He really made it obvious , but I thought that he was shy to approach me , so I found his IG and texted him , but he didn't reply even though he posted 2 hours after I texted him , he ghosted me , so I blocked him and...

Reem12345reem

Xper 7 Age: 18

Dating

Do my friend and I actually like each other?

I met this girl a few months back and we work together. I guess this whole time she thought I was straight because she came out to me like a week or two after we met while we were opening up about Christianity and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Was my bi friend trying to come onto me?

Anonymous

(25-29)