Im getting mixed signals from a coworker and I am wondering if she likes me or not?

[Anonymous]

Hi all, I'm currently am interested in a coworker who I have been talking to. She showed signs of interest but also is giving me some mixed signals. Signs that shows she is interested: - She asked about my family and we did talk about our personal lives -She asked if I am interested in living in her city - She laughs at my jokes even the bad ones - She tries to approaching me with small topics - She told me she recently broke up with her boyfriend in a group conversation - She sometimes brings me food from her home - She took a nap next to me one time (she had little sleep that night so you be the judge) - I occasionally see her approach me but ended up with her shying away -she sometimes "slacks" me reminders or if she is about to do something and wants me to accompany her Signs she is not interested: - She talks to my other coworkers more than me and approaches them more - She looks at her phone a lot even if I am there - In a group conversation, she mentioned her type and I don't 100% match that type (appearance only) - She sometimes replies with "yeah" She is introverted and I also am kind of quiet as well around her so I feel a bit mixed on what she thinks about me. How should I approach her if I want to start dating her eventually? Note: I understand that dating coworkers/ the possibility of it comes with a lot of risk, please save your breath on that topic. Thank you

[RedInnocent68]

Difficult to tell, and very dangerous. Needs uber communication and transparency to work, and can still blow up. Also depends on the workplace. Even if you’re seriously crushing, do you really want to ruin it? Isn’t it better to have a colleague and friend that makes work fun and worthwhile? In any event, it doesn’t sound like overwhelming passion and if you have to ask, it’s a hard no from me, Dog. As for sharing food, that’s just good manners! I hope you’re reciprocating by baking cookies, stopping for croissants or bringing in coffee or whatever…

[Finchie40]

If you like her just ask her on a date , say hey would you like to go out with me this weekend for dinner and drinks and see what she says , She is probably giving you mixed signals because she isn’t sure how you feel about her , so break the ice and ask her out

[sheikalana]

From what you described I wouldn't assume she's interested at all. She could just be friendly.

[overthinkergirl]

my opinion:

mixed signs=no

you know when someone like you, they dont play games

[ShesRad80]

hard to tell anymore with people, just be upfront and ask if she would like to go on a date for coffee or something

[Avicenna]

Probably finds you safe since you're a colleague. I don't think she is at the point she has romantic interest, but that could develop.

[Fuentes]

If a chick brings me food she wants the D, also if she five mixed signals I would take her out and smash her and act like nothing happen after, I don't do the games.

[KostasKouvalis]

Here's the most straightforward answer, she DOESN'T

[shtewps]

Mixed signals is a no. Don't waste your time.

[Nikki1989]

Have you not thought of talking to her?

[Iron_Man]

Just ask her out on a date