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I’m black young woman and I’m not the biggest fan of interracial relationships. I mean I believe everyone should stick with their own race. I mean do you want everyone to look the same? Absolutely not.
I love my black men way too much to date outside my race. I’m not racist but I’m just prefer my brothers. Plus I’m Iike my black men dark since I’m brown skin women, close to dark. Anyways I did date a white man and his family had a big problem us dating and made a huge fuss. Some of my relatives didn’t agree with me dating outside of my race so that’s why I prefer my own race. Plus I want my future children to look like me. I’ll support my friends if they date outside their face but I won’t agree with it.

My friend can't ever forgive her parents ever getting disowned for getting pregnant at 18. She's now 32, in a stable marriage, they both own a business and her two kids are both ages 14 and 9.

Her parents all of the sudden are all remorseful and want her back. However, this was her reply back to them ''My biological parents died long ago. Goodbye''. She then proceeded to blocking them.

She can't ever forgive that they didn't give a rats about her life (her 2nd pregnancy nearly cost her life; it got complicated), health, her first child's birth, her wedding, her b-days, etc. She also suspects they're just contacting her only after finding out she's having a good life and wouldn't be reaching out if she was poor and struggling? Her then boyfriend (now husband) took full responsibility and she received support from his parents. They were like a real parents to her. She also imagines that even if she forgives them and were to have them back in her life, she would never forget what they're capable of and that their love was never unconditional, that they would leave her during bad times again.

Would you forgive and give a 2nd chance if you got disowned or not? Personally, I agree with my friend. I would never be able to forgive that.