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I am trying to collect data on what kinds of people this happens to. I'd really appreciate you sharing any short or long details about your demographic/ personality/how you were brought up/dating experiences.

I don't know if I am just hyper aware of how people are, but I feel like often people already know very early on if a man or woman is full of crap or not, and I don't ignore red flags like some people do. Maybe not in 5 minutes but after a full 12 hours of conversation, I think it is about as clear as day, at least for me. I know some people actually "try" to believe lies are the truth, and then it becomes truth in their minds. Sometimes it is because of loneliness. Sometimes it is because the words sound so sweet. Sometimes the person is just so physically attractive. I am wondering in how many scenarios there are where adults genuinely had no clue until way later.

I feel like this might happen more for introverts, maybe only children, people who lack dating experience, and basically people who do not interact as much. Then again, I could be wrong. Maybe some extroverts are too friendly and see the best in too many people.

Just looking for honest stories/experiences. No judgment here.

Absolutely I don't. And I have plenty of reasons for that.

1- I find it really illogical to define someone's personality just based on their birth date. So many people are born on the exact same day, even at the same time and in the same hospital — yet they all have different personalities. Even twins, who are born under exactly the same conditions, often turn out to be quite different from each other.

2- Apparently, Pisces and Sagittarius are considered opposite signs — yet I somehow relate to both. My sun sign is Pisces, but neither my ascendant nor moon sign is Sagittarius.

My ascendant is Taurus, and I’m supposed to embody Taurus traits more clearly after the age of 30 or 34... but I don’t really see that happening.

3- People say Leo is a "born leader" sign — yet aside from Obama, barely any national leaders are Leos. Gemini is often said to be the worst for leadership, but Trump is a Gemini and, whether we like it or not, he did become the president.

They say Taurus people love food. I’ve seen many food lovers who are not Taurus at all, and many Taurus individuals who aren’t into food that much.

4- So no, zodiac traits don’t consistently reflect in everyone. Please don’t judge or stereotype people based on their zodiac sign — we are all different.

And finally, there is no real scientific proof behind astrology. The stars in the universe don’t control your life. A person’s behavior and personality are shaped by their environment and life experiences, not by distant planets or constellations.

Please stop blaming everything in your life on zodiac signs. It’s time to grow up.