Search Results: turn offs for a guy

I can think of one example in my life and one example in a friend's life where a guy was interested in her and also another time where a guy was interested in me, when I resisted they pursued but when I pursued, they resisted. I did not date the guy cause he was turned off by the fact I initiated contact but when I avoided him he would sacrifice other events to chase after me, but this was years and years ago.

My cousin says the same thing to her friends that if you want a guy to like you, you should ignore him. I don't know if she still gives advice cause she is at the age where a lot of her friends have settled down and are no longer on dating sites.

I’ve never actually had a conversation with him before and I only know him by name. He works in another department and works mostly remotely, I’d say once a month him and his colleagues are on site.

- First time I noticed him properly, he turned his head in my direction and smiled at me from quite a distance away

- I was sat eating lunch with a friend and he walked past with some colleagues. I looked up and he looked at me, we made eye contact for a few seconds as he walked past (he didn’t smile)

- When walking through a corridor he came towards me and he smiled and said hello. I scuttled off because I’m quite a shy person!

- I went for a walk up the hill at lunch time and he was with his department colleagues. They were coming down the hill and I was walking towards them. I noticed him staring at me from quite a distance away. When we got closer he smiled and said hi.

- I was chatting with one of the baristas at work who was talking about backache. She made a joke about me having backache because of my boobs. We were then having a joke about my boobs and I didn’t realise at the time, but the guy was around the corner grabbing some food. When I walked away and looked behind, he was staring and smiling at me, clearly having heard the whole conversation.

He is one of those guys who is so good looking that they are intimidating to me haha. So I’m way too shy to strike up a conversation.