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I am no where in the position of being in a situation where I get the joy of picking out rings. However ever since my brush with death in my dual truck accident I been reconsidering life. The things I've done and what I want. I also have been plagued with pain nightmares and mini nervous breakdown or panic attacks.

During a recent panic I pulled my car over to relax. I looked up and it happened to be in front of a mall I had bought my engagement ring. Feeling nostalgic needing to relax I went in to the store. There were many memories which washed over me. Good and bad.

I stopped at the ring styles I always wanted. During my first engagement He would have bought it for me had I asked but I didn't dare to. He even implied "that's the one you want isn't it"

I horrifyingly shook my head no in shock. A lie yes but I was very apprehensive at the idea of asking for something so costly with not contributing anything to it. It would have eaten at my conscience. We picked a set which ran significantly less.

Staring at the certain rings I realized I still want what those rings stands for... A forever and happily ever after. A partner whos my equal. I want someone who we balance each others and equally contribute to one anothers needs.

I also realized I'm not the same girl as then. I'm wiser at putting cash a side and I'm more confident. This time I can turn to a man I love and confidently say to him that's the one I want and I'll help pay for it.

My previous husband would have been offended by this. Though he was much older than me and from a different custom.

Do people considered it rude to A pick out one's own ring?

B would it be rude to offer to help pay especially because their requesting a certain ring which may run a bit steep?

As for me I've made up my mind lol that's the ring I want... I don't have the man to go with it yet but I'm hoping to find him! 🤣... And he doesn't have to worry I'll buy it if he can't afford it and then his as well!

I’m used to dealing with stupid people in customer service but it doesn’t happen often & has been for the past week. Last week, I went to an ice cream shop, order at drive through & when the guy hands me my cup he says “we usually pile on the toppings but this ice cream had a lot of toppings”. I just look at him & grab it, he says have a good day and I drive off. It just irked me it’s like mind your business. Second one was this past week at a pollo tropical drive through, order at speaker then go to window & ask him for a sauce. He looks at me & goes “you’re making me do more work”. And I said “excuse me?” I knew I heard right but he was kind of mumbling then he repeats it again & says “ that’s making me do more work no I’m just kidding”. And I said “excuse that’s very rude remember I’m a customer I’m not your friend”. And he apologizes, I grabbed the food from him, make sure it looks right & then he hands the sauce. I then say “I’m going to your manager” & drive off. Last one was Friday at a GameStop, I’ve dealt with this specific guy before & he was pretty accommodating the last time but Friday he irked me. I call in & ask if a new game that released that day was in stock. He says there’s plenty in stock & I go to pick it up. He asked if I pre ordered and said no I called in right before coming in to see if there was any. He goes on about how he’s shocked there’s so many copies in stock for the console I was asking for. Asked if I wanted to pre order future games, said no & he suggested pre ordering to ensure I will get a new game on release day. I said I called in anyway to see if you all had it before coming in & wasting my time he said pre ordering would save me having to call in. I reiterated I’m familiar with the pre order process.