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So I’ve been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. She’s 20. In her house there’s her mom, stepdad, her full siblings ( 21 and 19) and half siblings (12 and 10) and her dad. Since I’ve been with her I’ve noticed she’s very close to her dad and when ever he texts she replies immediately. Her dad was 48 when he met her mom who was 23. Anyway, she was over at mine for 3 days and her dad texted her “I haven’t seen you for 3 days, I miss you” to which she replied (I miss you too, we”lol watch our show when I get back) it was weird for me since I thought it was awkward. Then realised every time she mentioned she was watching something with her dad, it was up in his room, on his bed with the doors closed. It made me really uncomfortable. I asked her and she got mad and asked me to tell him like she confronted. So I can’t even get through to her about this. She other 2 siblings are not that close. They are in their own world. She does his laundry, one day he came into the room with her underwear asking if it’s hers? Just using 2 fingers that was another incident. He always picks her up, drops her off, comes to see her everyday after he finish work, gives her sweets and gifts, and then I planned a surprise dinner one day. She had to be home for painting the house. She forgot, I was dressed, she went home her mom ( narcissist) wasn’t happy, her dad didn’t look at her and she stood there staring at him waiting for him to turn around to look, it was really weird. I feel like my girlfriend is being a wife emotionally for her dad. The other day she said “daddy got me this” and I asked what? And she said dad after. When we have intimate time she says dddy, so now it’s even more awkward. If her dad and she is home, they always do something together, go for drives or he tries to show off his skills. Awhile ago he asked her what cologne I use and he bought the same. I wait for her to finish to eat, he does the same. Please help

So I have this coworker who I’m attracted to. We both got hired at the same time so in our first week of working we were both alone in the break room and started conversation with each just making small talk and asking about work. So I stopped talking to her and their was this period of 5-10 seconds of silence as I kind of ended it and then she asks “do you have a girlfriend “ She always be teasing me and making fun of me and making witty and sarcastic remarks to me. I this is her personality also but I noticed I notice she always finds a way to touch or bump me when close by. A few times I tested to see if she would touch me when I seen her coming and knew she had space to go around and she still made slight body contact with me. Also sometimes when talking her feet will slightly touch mine and she won’t move her foot away. I always have to move mine first and I know she must feel our feet touching. She has walked by and ran her fingers through my hair and touched me on my back when I wasn’t paying attention and said hi or made a silly face at me. I’ve noticed on a few occasions I can see/feel her/ looking at me with the corner of my eye and when I look up and make eye contact with her I give her a head nod and say “what’s up” or “what?” She will respond by saying”nothing” and just walk away or make a silly face or roll her eyes at me. I notice she touches her hair and makes direct eye contact when we speak sometimes, she also seems to fix herself and her hair whenever I’m around regardless if other people are there or not. We don’t really text a lot or often mainly for holidays/birthdays events etc but I noticed she uses my first name a lot in the texts, which is interesting because I’ve never had a female friend do this. One time I was telling her about a situation with a girl I was involved with who said something sexual to me and I think she got jealous because she said in a sarcastic manner and rolled her eyes “ oh you like those type of girls”.