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Our interactions started off with him staring and smiling at me. I’d smile back but quickly look away because I’m shy.

Id notice him look at me from across the room and we would glance at each other a few times.

When I took the plunge and made the first move by saying hi, he smiled even more but then ignored me for a couple of weeks.

He went back to staring at me, smiling and saying hi.

When we had our first proper conversation, he seemed quite fidgety and we spoke for a good 10 minutes. He was holding eye contact and smiling the whole time.

Now, we say hi to each other every day. He will walk past me to leave the room, and I will look up and catch him looking at me. As soon as I look at him, he smiles and says hi.

We had a long conversation earlier. His eyes looked down my body and he said ‘you look like you’re going to the gym’, and for most of the conversation we were staring into each others eyes.

So long story short this guy and I started talking and we both clicked and spent multiple days together just hanging out. We started making out and being intimate/ cuddling. We didn’t want to rush into things and both mutually wanted to fall in love with our best friend. Out of the blue he just went cold so I separated myself and then he stated he didn’t want kids (I have 2) which confused me even more so I backed off. He invited me over to look at my car (which he’d put off for a while) and then said I could hang out if I wanted. I didn’t try to cuddle or anything like we used to and he traced my arm and laid me on his chest. He invited me to go see a movie. I’m just confused. What in the heck?