I think she's wanting me to make a move, but I don't know how?

[Anonymous]

Honestly think it can just be a confidence issue my end

When we met a few months ago things hit off well but we didn't date because of stuff kept as friends but kept that option on the table. Not too long ago when playing a game she becomes rather flirty talking but I wasn't that flirty back, I joked with her on stuff but I know she wanted me to push it, but the more I think on it the more I'm warming up to the idea of seeing if we can get things going

I know she's not having much luck when it comes to relationships, mainly most guys don't stick around after the first date or just view her as a one night stand but I think she's remarkably cute, and I think we're pretty compatible so I do want to give this a go

Lately we still talk, she's been quiet because of moving but we still lightly flirt on occasion, but it's just pushing it i worry about as I don't want to come on too fast or come across as a creep

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, it sounds like this girl is definitely giving you some serious signs that she's interested in you. The flirty behavior, the questions about your relationship status - it's all pointing to the fact that she's waiting for you to make a move.

I get that it can be nerve-wracking, though, especially since you two have that whole history where you didn't date before. But I think you gotta just take a deep breath and go for it, my man.

The key is to keep it casual and confident, you know? Don't come on too strong or make it seem like a high-pressure situation. Just next time you two are hanging out, maybe find a moment to pull her aside and be like "Hey, I've been feeling like there's some real chemistry between us. Would you be down to grab dinner or catch a movie sometime, just the two of us?"

Keep it simple and friendly, but make your intentions clear. Let her know you're interested in taking things to the next level. And if she's feeling it too, she'll definitely let you know.

And even if she's not into it, at least you'll have your answer and can move on. No harm, no foul. But based on what you're telling me, I really think she wants you to make a move. You got this, dude!

The most important thing is to not overthink it or psych yourself out. Just be your confident, charismatic self and see where it goes. Who knows, this could be the start of something awesome. Shoot your shot, my man!

[Anonymous]

A lot of these gamer girls enjoy flirting and the attention they get from it but don’t have much intent behind it. I was in different gaming communities for a good chunk of my early 20s, met a lot of people through multiplayer games and have seen this time and time again. Even the quiet, shy ones you give all the benefit of the doubt draw men in with their their sweet voices, giving these guy’s attention who probably don’t get much of it IRL. And that’s not a jab, it’s just not everyone’s hobby to do much outside of gaming and that doesn’t afford you opportunities to meet women outside of those platforms.